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I decided to make this post because I've been noticing a lot of people (anons, mutuals and even my irl peers) struggling because of problematic ways of thinking. I hate seeing you all suffer and I am the type of person who wants to help everyone.

Rather than tips I'd say these are suggestions of topics you can search about.

1. Even if you aren't seeing a therapist right away, learning more about Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). This basically is a psychology approach that involves efforts to changing thinking patterns. You can start your research here

2. Self-compassion: it stands for 3 elements that you can also search separately. I'm listing them here to openly catch your attention. They are really interesting. - Self-kindness - Mindfulness (basically it means being open to the present, I personally think it is related to meditation, like this practice will help you a lot) - Common Humanity (Being able not to see yourself as the only one who makes mistakes and suffer because these things happen to every human being)

3. Types of communication. Developing a more assertive way to let your loved ones know how you feel or what you need is key.

PS. I learned about all of this mainly on podcasts but since it is in my native language (Portuguese) Many of you won't be able to access it. Still, I'm linking it here for those people who can understand it.

Youngbin Youngbin giving head- headcanon Making out with dance line Who gives the best massage? who gets carried away? (headcanons) Youngbin in the club (headcanon) Teasing in public (headcanons)

Inseong Romantic bf!inseong headcanons Break time- smut Who in SF9 has a corruption kink? Who gives the best massage? who gets carried away? (headcanons) Us (scenario)

Jaeyoon Cheer For You (scenario) Who gives the best massage? who gets carried away? (headcanons) Change of heart (two parts series, pt 2 has smut)

Dawon Cock warming with Dawon Who in SF9 has a corruption kink? a shoulder to cry on

Rowoon Date night, a very short headcanon First snow

Zuho Who in SF9 has a corruption kink? making out headcanons

Yoo Taeyang I'll take care of you- smut Private show- smut Good Boy- smut Entertain me- smut Making out with dance line Who gives the best massage? who gets carried away? (headcanons) supportive bf!taeyang headcanons [09:00AM] [10:20PM] [12:26AM] Caught in the act- headcanons First Kiss headcanons BF!YooTaeyang headcanons

Hwiyoung Good vibes- smut Just the two of us- smut supportive bf!hwiyoung headcanons First kiss headcanons Eating you out headcanons Lazy sunday morning I promise

Chani Making out with dance line Party On- smut

All members Sf9 reaction to s/o being able to hit high notes Sf9 as doms Drawing on the members skin- short headcanons SF9 members and their hickey style SF9 as doms Would SF9 members go for round 2 the morning after making love SF9 taking care of a kid which members would be into using toys Helping you during your period Making out in public Soft kissing headcanons(?) mommy kink sf9 when you fall asleep on their shoulder Friends with benefits

Taeyang x Female reader(noona girlfriend)

Genre;Fluff

Summary; You are his noona girlfriend and you were busy even on your off day so you baby boy is doing everything he could for your attention