You Matter.

sincerely, me.

Dear whomever reads this, Love is supposed to be gentle. Never easy, but never degrading. You’re supposed to uplift your partner in ways that others failed to. You’re never supposed to be the one tearing your partner down. You’re never supposed to lay a harmful hand on your partner. Nor are you supposed to manipulate them. Love is pure. Love isn’t having a claim on someone or owning them. It’s sacrifice. Commitment. Patience. Give and take. It is supposed to be equal. Anything less, you are simply not made for each other. Never stay in a relationship because you feel you won’t find someone to want you, there are over 7 billion people in the world. I promise you will be wanted the way you deserve within time. Sincerely, a friend. x

Sorry for the disappearing act I pulled. It’s been a while. I love you guys, thank you for the kind messages. But I am back. x

3.8.17 dear whomever reads this, you are so much more than your looks. your looks shouldn't be dependent on your worth, and they're not. sincerely, a friend.

2.15.17 Dear whomever reads this, It'll be okay. Just in case you forgot you mattered, I'm here to remind you. I'm also here to tell you that you're beautiful and worthy of life. Don't you dare give up, take a breath, and try again. Sincerely, a friend. x

much love. sincerely, a friend. x

12.29.16 Dear whomever reads this, Sometimes you can't always be there for everyone. Sometimes you need to be there for yourself before you can help anyone else, and that's more than okay. Sincerely, a friend.

12.25.16 dear whomever reads this, merry christmas. Please be careful and drive with care. Someone cares about you okay. Perhaps this holiday isn't as happy to you as it is to someone else, but you matter and it will be okay. I promise. Much love, Sincerely, a friend.

12.18.16 Dear whomever reads this, reminder— It's okay to be happy. Its okay to be sad. Its okay to be selfish when needed. Its okay to fail. Its okay to cry. Its okay to be angry. And its most definitely okay to be human. What isn't okay is giving up. You're not a quitter and you've made it this far. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and try again. Sincerely, a friend.

9.5.16 dear whomever reads this, **important!!** okay guys, lets do something a bit different. i want you guys to comment under this post, and rant. just rant. get EVERYTHING, off of your chest. this is a judgement free zone, this is a SAFE haven for you. so feel free to talk about anything and everything please. i feel i don't interact with you enough and that changes now. and if you see a comment and one of our friends are struggling, maybe you can give them advice or just give them a friend to talk to. because here on this acc, we are all friends; we are family. so sh and rant away loves. much love xx (p.s. this idea only works if you participate💗 ) sincerely, a friend.

9.5.16 dear whomever reads this, sometimes its okay not to be okay. sometimes you're sad and thats all you can be for a while. sometimes you have feelings and they catch up to you even though you try your hardest to out run them. sometimes you're human. sincerely, a friend.

8.30.16 dear whomever reads this, never ever ever ever say someones feelings aren't valid. that others have it worse than them. that their feelings are minor compared to someone else's. if someone is stressing about their appearance, or something that YOU KNOW bothers them relentlessly; please i beg of you. LISTEN to them. be there for them, and love them. maybe they see themselves worse than usual, or their pet died or their parent moved out. or something. if its something that is getting them down; listen. no ones feelings are superior to another. we are all fucking human, we all have feelings, and they're all valid. so be a decent human being and be there for them, comfort them, and don't make them feel worse. please. because, once you shut them down implying that their feelings are minor. i promise you they will keep their feelings and thoughts to themselves and that is more destructive than anything. much love xx sincerely, a friend.

sincerely, a friend.

7.23.16 💗 sincerely, a friend. x

i want to inspire people.