💕life’s a bitch!💞

we never dated

we talked for a couple weeks

i never even gave him my number

i am soooooo wigged out by this

1. How did you initially meet this person?

I met him on a Muslim dating app. I immediately felt major red flag vibes as soon as he started talking about spirituality and how his people always look at their partner’s nature to establish a tighter bond. Let me tell you all right now, I fell for it really terribly because I’m a spiritual person too. So just be careful, you know. It’s really scary out there.

2. What was the nature of your conversations during those couple of weeks?

He used me for sex but covered it up smartly by saying it would be good for marriage. And yes, he spoke about marriage early on. Red flag?

3. Did they ever exhibit any concerning behavior before this message?

Too many that I should’ve caught onto.

4. How did they manage to contact you without having your number?

Because he’s a stalker. He literally, every Snapchat I’d make, he instantly added me. Major creepy vibes from him, to be honest. Seriously.

5. Have you received any similar messages from them before?

This is the first time I got this message from him, and although I don’t know if it’s him, my soul knows. It warns me.

6. What steps have you taken since receiving this message?

Blocking. That’s it. Blocked him on everything.

7. Do you feel safe, or is there any immediate danger or concern for your safety?

I’m okay. I’m safe.

8. Are there mutual friends or acquaintances who might be able to provide more context or help?

No. I don’t tell anyone about who I date anymore because I don’t even know myself. That’s why since January 13th, I’ve been single.

9. Have you considered blocking or reporting this person on the platform where they contacted you?

Yes, I have.

10. How do you plan to handle future interactions with this person?