“If your boyfriend expects you to give him a doctoral defense on the virtue of chastity, something is wrong. Your feelings should be enough to earn his respect, and there's no need to apologize for having morals. All he needs to know is that he doesn't deserve the total gift of your body unless he has made the total gift of himself to you in marriage. No matter what he thinks of this, don't let any guy make you feel like he's doing you an immeasurable favor by not having sex with you. It is his duty as a gentleman, and you owe him nothing for doing what he ought to do.“