Oh, well.

not a caller not a texter but a secret third thing

don’t contact me. ever

Im a professional sweetheart

My alone time is for everyone’s safety

i'll never be the same but there's beauty in that too

I have no desire to be a baddie or a bad bitch. Whimsy is all I can be.

It all lead me to understanding myself better

No one talks about the personality shift as you get older. Where you no longer want to be impressive, you want to be rested. You want to be regulated and completely unavailable to anything that drains you.

the version of you from five years ago would be genuinely amazed by what you’ve handled since then. sit with that for a second

I promise you things will get so much better when you start processing people’s behavior as information rather than a verdict on your self-worth. If someone doesn’t text back, suddenly pulls away, whatever it may be, the solution isn’t to put on a tap dance for them and try to regain their approval. It’s not to crash out on them and try to force them to react a certain way. It’s just to take a step back, take a deep breath, and assess what this tells you. What’s this saying about them? What’s this saying about you??

It is so important to develop a sense of sovereignty over your own life

For the sake of your mental health, let people think what they want. Their fiction is not your truth.

I’m not the woman I was a few years ago or even a year ago but I still like to hold her hand and remind her she did her best with what she knew

to be sure of myself to be comfortable with who i am and to never stray or betray myself

Literally cannot believe I was ever scared of getting older like this is awesome. Learning so many new things about myself & reacting to things that used to get under my skin so differently. This is so sexy.