Why do people that call themselves femboys think they are more opressed than trans women? Like, the act of dressing more femininely while being a man is an act that yes, has a lot of scrutiny attached to it, but there aren't laws that make you unable to *do* that. Meanwhile there are several hundred laws making sure that i will always been seen as a man by the eye of the law. There are laws that make me unable to go to the bathroom. There are laws that make my life difficult and dehumanizing, and i just want to acknowledge how much more difficult my life is due to being a trans woman.
I can't even talk about a character maybe being transfem that people come out of nowhere to talk about "men erasure" and "why can't feminine men just be men", accusing YOU of being sexist towards men and "enforcing a binary onto the character" i can't relate to anything. I can't talk about my struggles, i can't be pissed off, i just need to suffer in silence. That's how i know these people really see us as women, just women that are okay to dehumanize and scrutinize.
I don't know what this is, it's just the screams of someone that is tired of not being treated as a person not even to people who call themselves allies.
