tch. whatever it's not like i like you or anything

care about transfems that grew up muslim or any other demonized religion, and those transfems that ended up distancing from community, and that one transfem who made a decision to integrate this part of her life in who she is.

infinitely care about transfems that are poor anf homeless, who make their ends meet, who "beg for money online", you underestimate how devastating it is, and you underestimate how many of us end up there

check up on transfems whenever you see another post with thousand likes and huge coverage about how they shouldn't exist, as transfems, as transfems of countries targeted by first world.

it should be a question on why all the global platforms are english language centered, and why we all should speak in a foreign language to be heard, and why you're the center of the conversation all the time. it should be a question why it's seen as default to know english, why us being bilingual and knowiung english is "whatever", because you'd be oh so praised to learn a foreign language to our levels. people make content off of it.

it should be a question why our countries and cultures and languages are studied like bacteria in petri dishes, and you would rather speak to anyone else about us BUT us. hey. platform them. platform third world transfems.

if i'd post in my own language i wouldn't give a shit if you machine translated, i would be sympathetic if the machine translation would be misleading and you would want me to explain the meaning better, translate your query for explanation too. hey. as long as it gets us to be heard and listened to.

1) transfems wholeheartedly proudly fighting for their places in gay men spaces, since they were "part of it all along"

2) transfems wholeheartedly proudly saying being a "twink" or some other man-loving-man-specific term is part of their identities

3) amab transmascs

4) intersex amab transmascs

5) non binary people amab saying they're transmasc

6) "amab only housing" being something perfectly justified amongst trans people

have i gotten banned for it? no. have i gotten reblogged and harassed a billion times by kiwifarmers and TWERF stalker blogs? no. none of this has happened, because i am not transfem, and these exile campaigns are primarily targeted at those who are.

hell, if i wanted to i could probably start engaging in a lot of the same kinks they use to justify banning some of these blogs twice a day, and i can almost guarantee nothing would happen to me. they don’t care anywhere near as much about the fact that there are nazis on this site, school shooter glorifiers, sections of this website i have seen where people are actually, literally soliciting sex from minors- but those blogs don’t get stalkers or callout posts. staff and the stalkers care way more about a transfem having kinks, or talking about how even people you don’t like or who make you uncomfortable should still have access to basic needs and human rights.

i cannot stress this enough: WE ARE NOT THE PRIMARY TARGETS OF TRANSMISOGYNY. if you are tme and care at all about the way this site has grown increasingly hostile towards transfems, SPEAK UP. GET LOUD ABOUT THE BANNINGS. GET LOUD ABOUT THE STALKERS. GET LOUD ABOUT EVERY SINGLE INSTANCE OF A TRANSFEM BEING DOGPILED, HARASSED, OR HAVING THEIR LIVELIHOOD RUINED BY TRANSMISOGYNIST MOBS.