Evanescent Desire

Venus in the 12th House - Haunted Honey Pie

Of all the feared placements located in the infamous 6th, 8th and 12th houses, Venus in the 12th house is one of the biggest blessings pertaining to the matters of this house in one's ascendant.

Venus is so much more than relationships, which is not commonly talked about. Venus also rules fairness, a spiritual equilibrium, that then ends up being mirrored as honest and equivocal relationships, if well placed. The 12th house, although commonly feared, represents the apex of creation, the peak of satisfaction, the orgasmic cosmic force so powerful that it has the capacity to burst forth and create a new cycle by being reborn in the 1st house. As a result, a native with this placement of Venus, regardless of its sign, moves through life with a sort of automatic grace. This grace allows this placement to create harmony and perfection in places and conditions, where normally others wouldn't be able to thrive.

The common trope of Venus in the 12th house entering abusive relationships comes from this placement's compassion, as it is able to generate and mirror infinite beauty of soul creation. That manifests as the native having compassion for those, who would commonly be feared or outcast due to their unusual or quirky nature. Venus shines its light on the darkness of the 12th house and illuminates it with its boundless love.

There is a different side to this placement, that comes from its advanced nature. As in the 12th house we have climbed to the highest point in the zodiac, this placement will not be easily satisfied with more superficial material pleasures or shallow partnerships. Being able to dwell in the infinity of this point of ultimate release, rebirth and creation, this Venus craves experiences that transcend the mundane. Because of this craving, it has a natural appreciation for vibrations, that are not that easily accessible to the naked eye. There is a deep, probing, searching nature to a 12th house Venus, a haunted nature, driven with a desire for something exquisite, yet profound, a spiritual delight rarely found. One may have to search far and wide in the darkest, most hidden corners of the world....only to be forced to find the answer within themselves.

The ultimate spiritual experience with this placement is the realisation, that after many searches, exhausting pilgrimages and despair of dissatisfaction and inner emptiness, all that had to be done is look inside. There, right under the surface, lies a temple, a sacred space, dripping with the nectar of infinity, that one can access at any time and anywhere. With Venus in the 12th, the way that one feels fulfilled within this space is by sharing this miracle with another. Relationships with others can be the point of highest cosmic bliss, but also a despairingly empty experience, if one fails to see their own worth as part of the team involved.

The challenge with this placement is to preserve the balance between service and giving to another and self appreciation for the performed acts of goodness and for the miraculous world always residing within, that propels the native to perform these acts of service. It would hurt any 12th house native to feel permanently disconnected as universal connection is a basic need with this energy, as giving to others selflessly is the natural instinct, but one has to remember not to be self abnegating, but instead performing these acts of service conscious of one's inherent inner perfection. There is a natural sense of spiritual pride due to being an embodiment of the Universe's symmetry that needs to be developed here.

The level of depth and sensitivity expressed with this placement is not appropriate for everyone, which can lead to disappointing experiences with those, who couldn't appreciate this intensity of spiritual finesse. That can lead to a lot of pain, a constant, internal scream, resounding emptiness absorbed from the external world, in a space where one wanted nothing but to share the wonders that they possess within.

I keep seeing posts on how to manifest based on your Venus Sign’s House Position, so I thought I’d give some examples.

These will be in order going backwards from the 12th house to the 1st with 3 in each post.

Manifesting with Venus in the 12th House:

-try envisioning or embodying the feeling of having your manifestations right before and/or right after mediating (can even use the 3-6-9 theory by doing 3 minutes of envisioning/embodying your manifestations, 6 minutes meditation, end on 3 minutes envisioning/embodying)

-Taking a journal/etc and writing/drawing/painting/taping/etc the things you want to bring into your life. Make sure that you feel like you created something beautiful after. Hide this somewhere you have your energy often but will stay untouched (by you and others)

-In bodies of water and if you can do it alone away from others, tell and embody the emotions of having what you want/need and ask the water to help bring it to you (water is constantly moving in one way or another, eventually it will evaporate and bring the rains that hold your blessings)

Manifesting with Venus in the 11th House:

-Creating vision boards with pictures/videos/etc or a mix and sharing them online (whether it’s on your main accounts or you make private accounts for yourself)

-Imagining the benefits and embodying the feelings you’ll get with sharing your manifestations with others, whether it be your friends or with strangers

-Learning the concept of detachment and practicing it every time you envision/manifest. I believe the whole concept of decreeing something (with your whole chest + emotions) and completely living as if you already have it works best with this placement.

Manifesting with Venus in the 10th House:

-Embodying the feeling of gaining the things you want to bring into your life while imagining the praise you’ll get from your peers or the public

-envisioning/embodying how you can share your joy from receiving your manifestations with your colleagues and sharing any gratitude if they had a helping part of past manifestations

She does not walk in beauty- she is beauty embodied.

Her soul echoes divine light. Every encounter with her is shrouded in unconditional acceptance and limitless forgiveness. To experience her is to drink from the most intoxicating elixir- she is an addicting drug.

You ingest her only to realize that she is a hallucinogen- you are left reeling in her divinely sourced knowledge. She contains the truths of the universe you never knew you were looking for. She is love embodied.

She is the most beautiful mirage. She is whatever you take her to be- this is to her detriment, however. For even she is unaware that her identity and selfhood is porous to her environment. She shifts, she shimmers, she dissolves, she dissipates- all in accordance to the image she tailors with the greatest care to reflect her environment.

Who is she? She is an all encompassing illusion. She is a shapeshifter who provides a never ending understanding and sensitivity to her environment in her Neptunian fashion. She knows all emotional undercurrents active and present within a moment.

She makes you feel safe, she makes you feel heard. You feel understood. When you are around her, she becomes an extension of you- even if this is done unconsciously. This is her greatest allure yet her undoing- her ability to hypnotize others and yet become mesmerized and lost in illusion herself.

You never forget her, but did you ever know who she truly was? In her illusory quality, her image never fully settled.

In her expression of malleable infinity, her love extends to the collective unconscious. She strokes your wounds with her healing balms of limitless love. Her pools of care and kindness never seem to run dry for others.

Here is where the contradiction enters the picture. She is love embodied, yet she is left wondering when she will ever receive the same love she freely gives out. Where is it? She finds herself crying this question frequently. She finds herself begging the universe - Will I ever be loved? She wills the powers of the divine to alleviate the pain from her aching and thirsty heart.

It is only when she allows her tears to flow, that she is one step closer to understanding. These tears flow through her heart and she discovers that the waters of love she allows everyone is completely accessible to her- it always has been. For she discovers that these tears are sourced from her pools of infinite love, understanding, and being. She begins to understand that a breakdown is a breakthrough.

She bathes her essence in self-love- her aroma of pure roses follows her everywhere she goes. This is her greatest and most advantageous lesson to be learned in this lifetime. For when she learns it, she expands her connection to source. Not only can she expose others to the love from source, but she learns that she can dip her body into its oceanic depths whenever she wants. These pools of infinite loving waters are hers- always and forever.

She slips in and out of source- but is always divinely protected and guarded. Venus has a soft spot for her children that reside in this lonely and what can feel like an abysmal house. She cherishes her offspring with intuitive gifts and connection- for she knows that the lesson of 12th House Venus is not an easy one.

The lesson of 12th House Venus is to learn the lesson of self-love- what makes this lesson so difficult is that it can only be learned alone. No one can teach you self-love. You cannot rely and base your worth on other people or any external resources.

Venus understands this- so she provides her children with an assortment of spiritual gifts. When the 12th House Venus taps into this source of self, these individuals can utilize so much power in their knowledge of energy and their pools of creativity.

These individuals must cultivate a strong foundation of self-love to move forward. They must allow themselves to set boundaries and protect their hypersensitive hearts.

If a Venus in the 12th house doesn’t like you, I can guarantee it’s your fault, these people love everyone and give everyone a fair go.

A complete force to be reckoned with though. Some of the most emotionally complex but strongest people out there. You are one of the lucky ones if these people decide to keep you in their lives as they’re very selective and often live in their own world.

Venus is the Planet of more than just love 💕 It represents our money, beauty, aesthetics, gratitude, things that are shared with another, and so much more

Here are some things that can manifest or come from having Venus in Houses 10-12:

Venus in the 10th House:

-Your relationship could be very beneficial to your public image (like being the first lady/man, etc)

-Flirting with top brass/managers/people in charge can help you advance even if nothing comes from it OR you could gain sources of income from people attracted to you or your actual dad (people with “Daddy’s Money”)

-Relationships (platonic/romantic) could be something more serious to you or seen as “work”

Venus in the 11th House:

-Placement where friends always end up having a crush on you at some point

-Platonic relationships can be more appealing to this sign/find the most benefits from friendships than romantic partnerships

-Can be luckier when it comes to online dating + online sources of income (like virtual assistants, beauty bloggers, stock photo people, etc)

Venus in the 12th House:

-Lovers can either see you as something your not or vice versa. Falling in love with the “dream” you/the one they made in their head

-Love can feel somewhat restricted or karmic. You might feel you attract a lot of “twin flame” relationships

What is Venus in Astrology?

In astrology, Venus is associated with love, beauty, harmony, and balance. It is also associated with the qualities of femininity, such as grace, charm, and sensuality.

When Venus is well-aspected in a person's chart, it indicates that they will be attracted to beauty and harmony in their lives. They will also have a strong sense of personal style, and be able to express their femininity in a gracefully confident way.

However, when Venus is poorly aspected, it can indicate that a person may be overly concerned with their appearance, and may be attracted to people and things that are superficial. They may also have difficulty expressing their true feelings, and may be prone to jealousy and possessiveness.

One of the most important things to remember about Venus is that it is never alone in the sky. It is always either in conjunction (aligned with the Sun), in opposition (opposite the Sun), or in some other aspect to the Sun.

This means that Venus is always affected by the light of the Sun, and its energy is always filtered through the Sun's rays. For this reason, the sign that Venus is in will always tell us something about how a person expresses their love and affection.

Venus in Aries

People with Venus in Aries are passionate and impulsive in their affections. They tend to fall in love quickly and easily, and are often attracted to people who are exciting and challenging.

They enjoy the thrill of the chase, and are often drawn to people who are hard to get. They like to be in control of their relationships, and may have difficulty showing their vulnerability.

Venus in Taurus

People with Venus in Taurus are very sensual and earthy in their affections. They tend to be attracted to people who are stable and reliable, and who can provide them with a sense of security.

They are often very loyal and faithful partners, and are often attracted to people who are good with money and who can provide them with material comforts. They may have difficulty expressing their feelings, and may come across as being cold or distant.

Venus in Gemini

People with Venus in Gemini are attracted to people who are intelligent and quick-witted. They enjoy having stimulating conversations and being around people who can keep them entertained. They may have trouble committing to one person, and may be attracted to people who are also flirtatious and changeable.

Venus in Cancer

People with Venus in Cancer are attracted to people who are caring and nurturing. They often need a lot of emotional support, and may be attracted to people who are also very sensitive and compassionate. They may have difficulty expressing their feelings, and may come across as being clingy or needy.

Venus in Leo

People with Venus in Leo are attracted to people who are confident and self-assured. They enjoy being around people who make them feel special and important. They may have difficulty being emotionally open, and may come across as being arrogant or vain.

Venus in Virgo

People with Venus in Virgo are attracted to people who are down-to-earth and practical. They often need a lot of security and stability, and may be attracted to people who are also very reliable and hardworking. They may have difficulty expressing their feelings, and may come across as being shy or reserved.

Venus in Libra

People with Venus in Libra are attracted to people who are diplomatic and fair-minded. They enjoy being around people who are harmonious and who can provide them with a sense of balance. They may have difficulty making decisions, and may come across as being indecisive or wishy-washy.

Venus in Scorpio

People with Venus in Scorpio are attracted to people who are intense and passionate. They often need a lot of excitement and adventure, and may be attracted to people who are also very mysterious and enigmatic. They may have difficulty trusting people, and may come across as being jealous or possessive.

Venus in Sagittarius

People with Venus in Sagittarius are attracted to people who are fun-loving and adventurous. They often need a lot of freedom and space, and may be attracted to people who are also very independent and free-spirited. They may have difficulty committing to one person, and may come across as being fickle or changeable.

Venus in Aquarius

People with Venus in Aquarius are attracted to people who are unconventional and original. They may be attracted to people who are also very independent, and who have a strong sense of individuality. They may have difficulty committing to one person, and may come across as being aloof or detached.

Venus in Capricorn

People with Venus in Capricorn are attracted to people who are ambitious and hard-working. They may also be attracted to people who are traditional and who have a strong sense of responsibility. They may come across as being serious or reserved.

Venus in Pisces

People with Venus in Pisces are attracted to people who are compassionate and romantic. They may also be attracted to people who are creative and who have a strong imagination. They may come across as being dreamy or unrealistic.

1.) Venus in the first house

When it comes to astrology, Venus is the planet of love, beauty, and money. So, it's no surprise that having Venus in your first house would be a pretty great thing. The first house is all about new beginnings, so this placement of Venus indicates that you're likely to start off your life in a pretty good place. You're likely to be a natural beauty, and you're likely to have a lot of luck when it comes to money and love.

Of course, every placement of Venus has its own unique meaning, so you'll need to consult an astrologer to get a more detailed reading of your specific situation. But in general, having Venus in your first house is a very positive thing. If you're looking for love, you're likely to find it easily. If you're looking for financial success, you're likely to find that as well. And if you're just looking for a general sense of happiness and well-being, you're likely to find that, too.

2.) Venus in the second house

When it comes to astrology, there are a lot of different things that can affect a person’s life. One of the things that can have an impact is the placement of Venus in a person’s birth chart. Venus is the planet of love, beauty, and money, so it’s no surprise that its placement can have a big impact on a person’s life.

If Venus is in the second house of a person’s birth chart, it can indicate that they are someone who is very materialistic. They may place a lot of importance on money and possessions, and they may have a strong desire for luxury items. Venus in the second house can also indicate that a person is very generous, and they may enjoy giving gifts to others.

While Venus in the second house can have some positive aspects, it can also have some negative ones. A person with Venus in the second house may be someone who is very greedy and selfish. They may only care about themselves and their own needs, and they may not be very generous towards others.

If you have Venus in the second house of your birth chart, it’s important to try to balance your materialistic desires with your need to be generous and giving. Try to find a middle ground where you can still enjoy the finer things in life, but also be generous towards others.

3.) Venus in the third house

When it comes to love and relationships, Venus in the third house is all about communication and connection. This placement is all about finding ways to connect with others and to express yourself in a way that is both loving and authentic. Whether it is through writing, speaking, or just being in each other's company, Venus in the third house knows that communication is key to any lasting relationship.

This placement also speaks to your ability to be a good friend. If you have Venus in the third house, you are the type of friend who is always there for a listening ear or a shoulder to cry on. You are supportive and loyal, and you always make sure to keep in touch. You may even find that you have a talent for writing or speaking, and that you use these skills to help others in your life.

No matter what your Venus in the third house placement is, you always know the importance of communication in any relationship. Whether it is with a romantic partner, a family member, or a friend, you know that connection is key.

4.) Venus in the fourth house

When it comes to our personal lives, Venus plays a big role in determining how we experience love, pleasure, and beauty. But Venus also has a hand in our domestic lives, as well as our relationship with our mothers. That's because Venus rules the fourth house of the zodiac, which is associated with these things.

If you have Venus in the fourth house, you're likely to have a beautiful and comfortable home life. You may also have a strong bond with your mother, and you may find that your love life is closely intertwined with your family life.

Venus in the fourth house can also indicate a need for security and stability in your relationships. You may find yourself attracted to people who can provide you with a sense of safety and security. This isn't necessarily a bad thing, but it's important to be aware of your need for security so that you don't become too dependent on your partner.

If you have Venus in the fourth house, you're likely to have a strong appreciation for the beauty of your home and family life. You may find yourself spending a lot of time and energy making your home a beautiful and inviting place. You may also enjoy decorating and entertaining guests in your home.

Fourth house Venus also indicates a need for emotional security and stability. You may find yourself attracted to partners who are reliable and supportive. You may also find yourself drawn to family-oriented activities and situations.

5.) Venus in the fifth house

When it comes to love, Venus in the fifth house knows what they want and they go after it with confidence. This placement lends an air of drama to relationships and those with this placement are often attracted to creative or unconventional partners. They enjoy the courting process and are often drawn to partners who can keep them guessing.

While Venus in the fifth house can be a bit self-centered, they are also generous lovers who enjoy giving and receiving affection. They take pride in their appearance and often use their looks to attract the object of their affection. They are also passionate lovers who are not afraid to experiment.

In general, Venus in the fifth house is a fun-loving placement that enjoys the finer things in life. They are attracted to beautiful things and often have a taste for the luxurious. They enjoy the company of others and are often the life of the party.

6.) Venus in the sixth house

In astrology, Venus is the planet of love, beauty, pleasure, and money. It is also associated with art, music, and relationships. When Venus is in the sixth house, it is said to be in its "domicile." This is a favorable position for Venus, as it is in a house that it naturally rules. The sixth house is associated with work and service, so Venus in this house is said to bring good fortune in these areas.

Those with Venus in the sixth house are said to be hard workers who are also very attractive. They are often gifted with artistic talents and are said to be very romantic. They are also said to be fair and just, always striving for balance in their lives.

7.) Venus in the seventh house

When Venus is in the seventh house, we are attracted to others who are balanced and harmonious. We want a partner who we can share our lives with, and who will be a good friend as well as a lover. We are attracted to those who are loyal and trustworthy, and who have a similar outlook on life to our own.

We are also attracted to those who are physically attractive, and who exude an air of confidence and self-assurance. We want a partner who we can be proud of, and who will make us feel good about ourselves.

We are attracted to those who are successful and who have a lot to offer us. We want a partner who can provide us with security and who can help us to achieve our own goals.

However, we also need to be careful that we don't become too dependent on our partner. We need to make sure that we have our own lives and our own goals, and that we are not living solely for our relationship.

Venus in the seventh house is a strong indication of a committed and lasting relationship. If you are single, then you are likely to meet someone special who you will want to settle down with. If you are in a relationship, then you can expect it to be a stable and long-term one.

8.) Venus in the eighth house

When it comes to love and relationships, Venus in the 8th house is all about intensity, passion and intimacy. This is a placement that is attracted to the dark side of love, and is often involved in relationships that are intense, passionate and even a little bit dangerous.

For Venus in the 8th house, love is about power, control and manipulation. These individuals are often attracted to partners who are mysterious, dark and even a little bit dangerous. They are attracted to what they cannot have, and often push the boundaries in their relationships.

While this placement can lead to some unhealthy relationships, it can also lead to some of the most passionate and intense relationships. If you have Venus in the 8th house, you know that love is not always easy, but it is always worth it.

9.) Venus in the ninth house

In astrology, Venus is the planet of love, beauty, and relationships. When Venus is in the ninth house, it brings these energies to the areas of higher learning, philosophy, and travel. This is a time when you may be attracted to new ideas and ways of thinking. You may also find yourself drawn to far-off places.

This is a good time to explore your options and to expand your horizons. You may be more open-minded than usual, and you may be eager to learn new things. This is also a good time for travel and for higher education. If you have been thinking about going back to school, this would be a good time to do it.

This is a good time to connect with people from different cultures and backgrounds. You may find yourself attracted to people who are different from you. This is a time of growth and learning, so don't be afraid to step out of your comfort zone.

Venus in the ninth house brings a desire for knowledge and understanding. This is a good time to read books on topics that interest you. You may also be drawn to subjects like philosophy and religion. This is a time of expansion, so don't be afraid to explore new ideas.

This is also a good time for travel. If you have the opportunity to travel, you should take it. This is a time when you will learn a lot from new experiences.

Venus in the ninth house brings a sense of adventure. You may find yourself drawn to activities that are outside your usual routine. This is a good time to try new things and to expand your horizons.

This is a good time for travel and for higher education. If you have been thinking about going back to school, this would be a good time to do it.

You may also find yourself attracted to people who are different from you. This is a time of growth and learning, so don't be afraid to step out of your comfort zone.

10.) Venus in the tenth house

When Venus is in the tenth house, it's all about career and public image. This is the time to put your best foot forward and show the world what you're made of. You'll be determined to make a good impression and be seen in a positive light.

This is an excellent time to advance your career or start a new business venture. You'll be confident and eager to take on new challenges. You'll be determined to succeed and will put in the hard work to make it happen.

Your public image will be important to you at this time. You'll want to be seen as successful and competent. You may dress more professionally or take on a more serious demeanor. You'll be eager to make a good impression on those in positions of authority.

This is a good time to network and build relationships with influential people. These connections can help you further your career goals. You may also receive help from others in achieving your goals.

Venus in the tenth house is a time of ambition and achievement. You'll be determined to reach the top and will put in the hard work to make it happen.

11.) Venus in the eleventh house

When Venus is in the eleventh house, she brings her charms and her love of beauty to the social sphere. This is a great placement for Venus, as the eleventh house is all about friendship, community, and networking. Venus here is outgoing and loves to be around people. She is attracted to those who are different from her, and she enjoys exploring new ideas and cultures. Venus in the eleventh house is generous and giving, always looking for ways to help out her friends and make them happy. She is a loyal friend, and her friends are important to her. Venus here is also very idealistic, and she believes in the power of love and friendship to change the world.

12.) Venus in the twelfth house

When it comes to the twelfth house, Venus encourages us to let go of what we no longer need in our lives. This may manifest as releasing old emotional baggage, forgiving someone from our past, or simply getting rid of material possessions that we no longer use or need. On a more spiritual level, Venus in the twelfth house can also help us to connect with our higher selves, and to access our intuition and psychic abilities.

In general, the twelfth house is associated with hidden things, and with the unconscious mind. Therefore, Venus in this house can also symbolize hidden talents or abilities that we have yet to discover. We may need to do some soul-searching in order to uncover these hidden gifts, but the effort will be worth it in the end.

No matter how Venus manifests in our lives, she always encourages us to express our love and affection. In the twelfth house, this may manifest as compassion for those who are suffering, or as a desire to help others in any way we can. We may also find ourselves drawn to solitary activities such as meditation or prayer, as these can help us to connect with our higher selves.