Running Free

then make it work when it’s time to put in work. i won’t tell you how to get into that, but give her every sun and moon.

fast forward, ask her on a date. take her to a place that mean something to you, or want to mean something eventually.

be honest with your intentions from the beginning. if things change, let it be known. silence when shift happens is equivalent to a lie.

give and allow room for her to reveal things to you as time goes. don’t pressure what you don’t know. don’t assume what she hasn’t confirmed

if you’re not comfortable with honesty in the beginning, truth will always taste foreign in your relationship. practice transparency.

intensity will give you secrets. it will tell u how deep the water is. sometimes people admire the ocean but can’t handle the waves. test it

practice honesty before feelings develop. create a connection, some kind of friendship to always go back to when times are against you.

love is not this game people make it out to be. nothing accidentally just falls in your lap and you don’t have to work to keep it.

when talking to a woman you like, check your ego at the door. before a text/a phone call. stop pretending to be what she’ll find out you not

if she says no, respect that. don’t trip and call her names to save your ego. walk away, wish her a good day. nothing forced works anyways.

ask for her number, if she says yes. don’t hand your phone to her. type it yourself. show her that she’s not some trophy u won on the street

be confident. smile. give her time/room to respond. respect her space and what she’s telling you. interest or no interest.

make small conversation, don’t get too cocky. no woman wants to hear how deep your pockets are (not yet atleast) unless you’re both shallow.

there’s nothing wrong with being persistent. in fact, women find it attractive but don’t grab her by the arm. you don’t know her or own her.

when u see a woman across the street don’t catcall or ‘hey shorty’ your future woman. approach her, open conversation. respect her response.