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Dónal Finn in Angel (2018)

#angel short film #donal finn #rewired my brain chemistry actually.

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loopnoid

i've been told there's a repost of this silly old comic going around so here's the real one

#iwtv

amazoogle

let's develop a perfect plan

amazoogle

1. get cozy in bed

an-ruraiocht

not gonna lie i increasingly just find myself thinking... what are single disabled people supposed to do? basically everything assumes that either a) you have never been independent and are fully reliant on caregivers, whether this is parents or a paid carer that you are somehow funding, or b) you have a partner who can look after you, drive you to appointments, pick you up after you've had sedation, advocate for you, be your proxy, do the housework when you're sick, push your wheelchair, be your companion when travelling (e.g. handle the luggage if you're using a wheelchair), etc

and like. first of all even for people with partners that's assuming they're abled themselves and can handle all that. you can't assume that. secondly: what about people who are single, who live alone, who will probably always do so

"get someone to keep an eye on you when you start this new medication" who. "don't over exert yourself" nobody else is going to do the tasks. "this can be a walker or a transit wheelchair so your partner can push you when you get tired" my what

like it's not a coincidence that amatonormativity discussions started / developed in care contexts because it is so often the assumption that intimate partners will fill these needs. but I feel like this is often discussed in the context of "and this is too much to ask and puts too much unpaid labour on the unqualified partner" which is not untrue and needs discussing but like. also. what about people are single, independent adults who are neither emotionally nor geographically close to their siblings etc and are not Disabled Enough to have a paid carer (a group that grows as resources shrink). like are they just fucked then. they're on their own. punishment for failing to be enough of an adult to couple up.

an-ruraiocht

a few years ago i was having a procedure for which i was going to have partial sedation, so they wouldn't let me leave the hospital alone afterwards. even though i would just be getting a taxi from outside the door back to my house

i had to ask my housemate to come to the hospital in a taxi, leave the taxi waiting outside, come inside to fetch me (they wouldn't even let me go from the ward to the taxi even though i could point to my phone and the texts saying that my housemate was outside), and then go back to our house with me. fortunately it was a weekend, so she didn't have to take time off work to do this, but they went on about how she'd have to keep an eye on me for the next day or so

bear in mind that i barely knew my housemate when we moved in together. we had mutual friends but it was an arrangement of convenience

these days i do have nearby friends who own a car, so would potentially be able to pick me up in a situation like this. but they don't live with me. so they wouldn't be able to keep an eye on me overnight as my housemate was assumed to be willing to do. my flat only has one bed in it. like. i don't know. it just seems to be completely beyond their comprehension that somebody could live solo and not just have someone who will look after them?? and this was for a small routine procedure that lots of non-disabled people have, so not even assuming high care needs! hospitals just can't comprehend that single adults exist!

aro-disaster

That reminds me of the time I was giving blood and (in addition to my usual fainting shenanigans) there was a concern that the phlebotomist had given me nerve damage.

Trying to get the blood people to understand that I had driven there and that no, I didn't have a partner to come fetch me and monitor me was a flipping task and a half.

It took me over an hour to get out of the centre and I had to promise to call 111 (the non-emergency medical line) if anything happened.... Not sure what they would have been able to do for a tweaked nerve over the phone, or indeed what having a partner there would have achieved...

torakowalski

Be A Better Us - Chapter 17

We're back! We're back with a nice long chapter! Please note the rating has gone up (for sex, it's gone up because of sex). Fandom: SAS: Rogue Heroes (TV) Rating: Mature Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply Relationships: Paddy Mayne/Eoin McGonigal, Bill Fraser & Eoin McGonigal, Paddy Mayne & Ambrose McGonigal Additional Tags: Alternate Universe - Modern Setting, Second Chances, Background Relationships, Disabled Character(s), Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder - PTSD, Panic Attacks, Chronic Pain Summary:

"We should have got a taxi," Paddy says, falling face down onto Eoin's bed with a groan.

"They drank one bottle of wine between them, I have no idea how they're that tipsy," Eoin agrees. From Dave's room next door, he can hear Tricia's giggling and Ambrose chattering on. "Swear down if they don't pipe down, I'm kicking them out onto the street."

Read Chapter 17 on AO3.

#🥺🩵 themmm #fics #paddyeoin

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thistoowillpasss

kittykittyredcat

#hyc: eoin

3000s

ocd will have me thinking i cant text "here now if you wanna head over" because i sound like blowjob mario with a walkie talkie

3000s

nobody thinks this way, you are a broken person

#hyc: fraser

warmrainonawinterday

I just CANNOT imagine reading The Vampire Lestat and deciding the most interesting parts, the ones worth actively expanding on and adapting for the screen, are the ones aaaaaall about the Rock Star Framing Device Around The Actually Interesting Story. All, like, two chapters of it in a 500+ pages long book.

#YEAH im chewinf through cables actually.#what do you MEAN that was all the nicki we got

squidinktea

i dont want 22 episode seasons back. i dont want 8 episode seasons. i dont actually want a prescriptive number of episodes per season

its the era of streaming. we dont need to fil x number of timeslots.

i want tv shows to be able to determine for themselves what their optimal number of episodes per season to tell the story they want at the pace they want. maybe thats a 3 episode season. maybe thats a 50 episode season. i dont care, i just want the decision to be made for practical and artistic reasons rather than corporate ones

digitalvampyr

do u wanna come over n just lay in bed

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stjohnstarling

The social forces that prevent you from being able to admit to your own desires in the safety of your own mind are far more evil than any desire you could have.

stjohnstarling

Unacted desires are fundamentally neutral, and you can't decide what to do about the things you want unless you can admit to yourself what they are in the first place. Everyone has desires that would hurt other people if they acted on them, but most people would not actually go out and do anything they know would cause harm. Far more harm is done in this world by people who are trying to pretend they can't possibly want anything they think is bad than people running around going "ehehehe I love hurting people!"

stjohnstarling

Providing people with a way of exploring the dark parts of ourselves in a way that cannot hurt anyone is one of the purposes of both fiction and kink.

stjohnstarling

All of us have a hungry, horny, angry, scared animal inside ourselves. You do not need to excuse or justify what that animal wants, it simply is. You cannot escape it. Lying to yourself about the animal that you are will only give you less control over it, not more.

pennaraptor

little Delphy... everybody is mean 2 her :(

#stunning!!

knighteirian

Louis de Pointe du Lac INTERVIEW WITH THE VAMPIRE (2022) 1.01 "In Throes of Increasing Wonder..."

#i miss his beautiful brown eyes.......#iwtv

thatsbelievable

memories-of-ancients

Drinking horn with gilded copper mounts, Europe, 15th century

from The Hunt Museum, Limerick

tarvek-sturmvoraus

localxenospores

i was compelled

beastoftheblackhole

I was also compelled

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macabrevampire

i have to feel weird and unsure of everything forever #thecurse

loveridden1999

maybe it's me being a brown woman but i can't comprehend how & why people treat having a racist phase as a teenager as smth okay or a norm

phruxx

it's def not good but treating people who got better like they're still shitty people is a good way to make them turn back into shitty people

loveridden1999

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