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What do ENFPs idealize about others, in terms of both romantic relationships and friendships?

Hello, I am an enfp and I wanted to ask if all enfps are really bubbly and energetic people all the time? Like yes they probably aren't but I just wonder why people think that. Even when I feel so awfully bad, people act like I'm fine, shallow and all about fun, but ever since I hit the puberty I feel very contemplative and somehow emotionally dry. The only one who understands who I am is my intj friend. I wonder if other enfps feel like I do sometime in their lives because it's confusing. :/

Honestly, enfp here, and one of my traits that I rlly dont like about myself is i fall in love really easily: if the other person confesses they have a crush on me, I'm gonna jump right into a relationship with them. Only problem is that the initial excitement wears off easily, then I wanna get out of that relationship immediately. Three girlfriends, one boyfriend, and hundreds of crushes later, here I am, too scared to get into another relationship :') only one of them lasted over 6 months...

Since ENFPs get bored easily, how do they maintain a long term relationship without the feelings fading? And what about when an ENFP is in a relationship with an INTJ? As an INTJ, I get just as easily bored as ENFPs, if not more so. What are your thoughts on how to keep the ENFP INTJ romantic relationship going long term (preferably for the rest of the couple's lives)?

Hey, I'm the anon confused about the ENFP×INTJ romantic attraction and that Thought Catalog really helped me understand. It does actually sound really good. I haven't met any INTJ men yet that I know of so idk maybe that had something to so with it. But you have really opened me to the idea. Only thing though, is it normal for ENFP×INTJ relationships to be constantly having to push the other partner to do things a lot, and have to monitor their social behaviors a lot on both ends? Thank you!

So, what is the reason why ENFP's and INTJ's seem so good romantically? I'm an ENFP and I have tons of INTJ friends, but I feel like it would be difficult in my opinion to date one due to to differences with willingness to compromise and they tend to be very pessimistic and controlling (at least the ones I met). I always saw that INFJ's and maybe INTP's would be more compatible introverts. Idk I feel like INTJ×ENFP is better platonically.

What is the meaning of self acceptance to you?