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I made a post two days ago about the absolute carelessness of V4ngelix's original callout post plus her utter lack of an a public apology to try and undo that damage, and one of my followers sent her an ask saying that she should probably apologize to Nove. She responded, giving an absolutely terrible apology full of excuses that never said Nove's name once but it was at least an apology—is what I would be saying IF SHE DIDN'T FUCKING DELETE IT IMMEDIATELY AFTERWARDS

Here is my post documenting this

Here is the screenshot of the one hour apology that I needed to get from someone else because I didn't expect it to immediately get nuked:

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I should need to explain why a one hour apology that not all her followers would had seen compared to her call-out which was up MUCH LONGER is acceptable, nor the hypocrisy of not wanting an account full of drama when she unprompted made a post lying on my friend and asking her followers to harass her

The most important bit is "As for why I didn't make a public apology earlier, it's because I wanted to solve things privately, and I did." [Spoiler: she didn't]

She claims that she gave Nove a "private apology." Considering I'm one of Nove's closest friends, and Nove has never mentioned once getting an apology from her, I rightfully called bullshit. Eventually asking Nove what the fuck she meant by that, and Nove gave me screenshots

The apology, which was given through a third party, and was before she had even completely taken down the call-out post:

Nove responded as follows:

Nove quite obviously didn't accept this apology, considering the post that was calling people to harass her and was lying about her was LITERALLY STILL FUCKING UP on her side blog, which comes off as insincere at best not to MENTION

V4ngelix was sending people Dms trying to get Nove removed from projects with false allegations and no evidence. Luckily, this is (@artisticmothman) a friend of Nove's who was able to call bullshit, but it's unclear how many people she messaged like this, and how many people spread that rumor on

If someone slandered me, messaged people I knew to lie about me, sent people to falsely report my blog, and would neither apologize to me directly NOR make an APOLOGY as PUBLIC AS THEIR ACCUSATIONS, I also would be pretty fucking annoyed with them

V4ngelix replied with:

I am. Nearly fucking speechless. I was actually speechless when Nove sent this to me. I don't think I need to explain to anyone with eyes why this is a fucking batshit take to have to someone being upset you won't make an apology as public as your call out, but fuck it, let's go line by line

"You may as well tell them that their attitude is the reason why I thought they were the harasser because I clued in that this person was unhinged and petty." You made a PUBLIC CALL OUT!! LYING ABOUT AND CALLING FOR HARASSMENT TOWARDS HER AND NOW YOU'RE INSULTING HER!!!! Nove is the unhinged one? Because, unlike you, she never made a call-out lying about you

"I understand they're hurting but if they're going to have sewage water for saliva then they're not making their case any better." Nove's case? Nove doesn't have a case. YOU were the one falsely accusing people

"I'm trying to be mature about this so shittalking about me to their friends isn't helping how they feel or even how I feel about them being the victim in all of this." Wow, imagine if someone made a post calling for their followers to falsely report them and accusing them of harassment and they're *checks notes* angrily venting to their friends? Are we so serious right now?

Not to mention "or even how I feel about them being the victim in all of this." That doesn't matter!! What do you mean how you feel about NOVE being the victim?? You sent people to falsely report her blog!! YOU are the one who nearly caused a LOT of harm!!! Grow a moral backbone, and apologize properly

"And the fact they wanted to actually sent these insults to the person who is trying to clear things up shows that they don't deserve such grace, but I still want to give it because I'm a decent human being that wants to learn." You are trying to actually clear things up? By not making a public apology until a week later, and immediately deleting it? That's clearing it up to you? A decent person would just make the public apology

"If anything they don't deserve a friend who's willing to investigate the situation and clear things up while balancing life problems and a project with around 20-30 people on the side." V4ngelix, you do remember that YOU'RE the one who caused all this and thereby caused Moth (@artisticmothman) to have to mediate this, right?

"I could have left this post up but instead of being mature about it they feel entitled to be an asshole because they're the victim even tho again, I'M TRYING TO DO BETTER. But I guess it's easier to talk shit huh?" THE VICTIM? YOUR VICTIM THAT YOU SENT PEOPLE TO FALSELY REPORT IS FUCKING MAD AT YOU??? FEELS ENTITLED TO A PUBLIC APOLOGY??? COLOR ME SHOCKED!!

This makes her disappearing public apology stunt all the more insulting! It's literally the MAIN thing the actual VICTIM here wanted. And she's unwilling to do the bare minimum

"As for why I didn't make a public apology earlier, it's because I wanted to solve things privately, and I did." You didn't solve shit. Nove asked for a PUBLIC APOLOGY, and you can't even manage that decency for the victim of your attempted smear campaign

V4ngelix seems to be convinced that she's more moral than Nove because Nove is kinda an asshole. I'll put it very bluntly. Nove might be rude, but you tried to start a harassment campaign and attempted to smear her name. One of those things is an attempt to cause real tangible harm, and it isn't being an rude

You say you want to do better. The victim of your call-out wants a public apology, at the bare minimum. It's not that hard