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Love. We say this word all the time, may that be to family members, and friends and animals and items and everything, WE.LOVE.EVERYTHING. Now, when it comes to loving another person, and not just any person, your PARTNER. May this be a Man or a women it is all the same. When you first start being with this special somebody, of course you, have some degree of feelings for each other ( other wise why would you be dating?¿ ), but when these feelings start to develop, and grow as your relationship grows, it becomes more than “ I like you, you like me, let’s date.” It becomes something called love. Now don’t be scared everything will be okay! When you love somebody, and trust me you’ll know when you do, you are crazy for this person & not in a bad way. This ‘significant other’ is the person you probably care the most about and this is good embrace these feelings. Let’s go through the signs of what it is like to love. 1)When you love somebody you just want to shout it to the world, let everybody you know how you feel, and this is good, I encourage this! Why you may ask? Because it means you really do care, when you get to that point where all you want to do is scream about how much this person means to you, it’s truly real. 2)With love you want to with this person constantly, you couldn’t get enough of them, every single second of time with them is precious, you never want to forget these times. 3)When you are with them they are all that matters, you attention should fully be on them, nothing else! Get off your phone, there’s no need to be on there when the person you want to talk to the most is right next to you. 4) Happiness, the one you love makes you the happiest person ever. The one that makes you smile when they aren’t even doing anything, you just look at them and you just “ get the instant feels ” they make your heart skip a beat, they give you butterflies in your stomach, all that cheesy stuff, but you know what? It’s not cheesy at all, it’s absolutely true and real, that’s that it’s like to love. 5) If you get caught just staring, this shouldn’t be a bad thing, this means that you just can’t keep your eyes off them, for whatever reason that’s all you want to look at, because that person in front of, next to, or behind, is the one you Love and the person who makes you happy with out having to do a single thing or say one single word. If a you had was just each other. That’s all you would need. 6) If you feel like you say “ I love you ” too much, stop that though right now! Because you don’t, you could never say it enough! And that’s how it feels when you love somebody. You can’t say it enough because that’s just how you feel, it’s like you love them but it’s more than love, and as soon as I figure out what that is I will let all of you know. 7) if you miss them even if it’s, say for 5 minutes, and the moment they are back you tell them how much you missed them and everything ask them if they missed you ( we will usually Try and but cute and be like “ did you miss me ;) ” or “ I hope you didn’t miss me too much;) ” ) We add those statements and cute flirty winky faces to be cute and charming but, when it comes down to it, we really mean it, you missed them, they missed you, they hated leaving you even if it was only for a second. 8) long distance relationships, * GASPS * * SO SCANDALOUS *. Yeah no. They aren’t. If anything they might as well be the best kind of relationships there are. This is because maybe you are with somebody and you love them, but you can’t meet in person for two years. Well during those two years what do you do? You build your relationship, dealing with being so far apart makes your relationship stronger and better than any relationship you could’ve had with somebody close. No matter how much you wish you could cuddle or kiss and go on dates and just be with each other, not Doing it right away will make it so much more special when after those years or any other length of time of waiting, it will all be worth it in the end right? The answer is yes it will. Trust me you can get through it, because if I can without any problem I know you can too:) ~ A 7/7/15 4:48 a.m.

Hey its me. I miss you.

So when you are with somebody, you both tell each other how you feel, and say everything and express your emotions and thoughts and feelings. And the both of you know that you mean it with all your heart, but if you both take the time, to truly sit down and express how you both honestly feel about each other, it is simply amazing, and you get to express to our partner how you really do feel and that you mean everything you say and have said, and are going to say. You take away all the cute emojis and the “ …🙈 ” and you just say exactly the way you feel. Everything. You want them to know that what you say is truthful and how you feel is really real. These kind of long meaningful messages really strengthen your relationship and builds and makes the both of you stronger in every way. Now these messages don’t need to happen all the time, but every once in a while because of you did them a lot they would slowly become less meaningful. So take the time to sit and type out how you feel and make the one you love smile:) 07/19/2015 3:24 a.m. ~Alec