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cluster B does NOT mean abuser

Cluster C does NOT mean abuser

Cluster A does NOT mean abuser

NPD does NOT mean abuser

BPD does NOT mean abuser

ASPD does NOT mean abuser

No/low empathy does NOT mean abuser

Personality disorder does NOT mean abuser

You are just ableist

the first reads: "Hate how much we make fun of melodramatic poetry in this day & age. Ur not better than any 16 year old pouring their heart out on tumblr just bc you refuse to embrace the mortifying ordeal that is the spectrum of human emotions and passion and yearning like the rest of us".

I an anti radqueer given how... open they are to certain subjects but I am also against the "radnormal" label.. thing.

I also find that anyone who has a "radnormal" blog all have this massive red flag they're raising. Cause the entire purpose of the blog is to say how much they want rqs dead and like... buddy.. no one likes you when you're just sitting on your PC or phone writing down how much you want to see another person dead on the streets. No one who has any amount of mental health wants to be around someone who spends hours bad mouthing people they dislike in ways that strip them of their humanity.

No one likes you when you're being a dick and only want to talk bad about others. You "found a good way to hate people" and people who don't like that won't like you for doing it, which again is most people who aren't also sucked into the hate train. What happens in these groups when you stop hating for a second? When you try to breathe and live your life for a day, what do you come back to?

I have the same questions for anti endos actually... what happens in your system spaces when you're not blaming endos for things? Are you "allowed" to just exist in those groups talking about your headmates, or maybe sharing ways to talk to your therapists/psychiatrists? Do you talk to the same people you scream at endos with about that funny interaction with a fictive? Do you talk about that thing you got to make that one system member happy? Do you talk about the struggles of doing dishes while someone won't stop scream singing the macarena?

Yall have got to get more comfortable going outside of ur norm. We are not inept in the face of tech oligarchy.

A website requires ur ID? Dawg, do not use that website. Don't use it. 'But every social media where I live requires that and thats the only way I connect with people,' babe ur gonna learn to talk to ppl irl or ur gonna learn about some digital back doors, I promise it is worth it. I promise it is not that hard or scary.

Ur grocery store is trying to implement digital dynamic targeted pricing? Brother do not use the app, don't scan shit. As far as they're concerned u don't have a phone. Bring everything that looks good up to a register with a human being and have them tell you the prices. Leave anything you don't wanna pay for there. Pay with cash.

Ur apps are tracking and/or censoring what u say or consume? They're showing you more ads than humans' posts? I've got it, I've got it... don't use them. Literally why are you continuing to use them. The scariest part of this shit is that y'all really believe you have to engage with it. Why is anybody on tiktok or instagram anymore? Yall cannot breathe without censoring urselves. I could not physically hold my breath for the amount of time it takes to scroll past ads between real human posts on insta-- and that's not even specifically people I know. why are yall giving your time and brains to this?

These things are not hard, they just require you to stop thinking via ur phone. Hell, you don't even have to get fully offline to get the fuck off of apps. They're hurting us. We've lived in an analogue world for much longer than a digital one. You've probably lived without any of these things before. I'm so sick of the "we can't do anything to stop the tech monstrosities" rhetoric... you literally can disengage. That is doing something. It's barely even truly inconvenient for most people. Literally just disengage.

Seeking out transphobia online is a form of self harm.

Through out our lives, we will encounter enough transphobia without our consent, directly and indirectly, that will most likely result in PTSD. My therapist says my PTSD is so bad she compared it to someone returning from war (lmao). It can be debilitating at times and I am learning to manage, but im just happy to have survived long enough to see a good life is possible for someone like me.

I am 30. A lot of the people who were posting when I was 17, 18, 19, 20 are dead now. They arent here to beg you to protect your mental health and tell you the most important thing we can do, for ourselves and our community, is survive and thrive. So I am.

Please protect your peace at all costs.

Proving that transandrophobia exists by exposing yourself to hate for people who are not even engaging in good faith is not worth your life, or the lives of people in our community.

You do not have to take a screenshot of the most hateful thing you've ever seen and share it to thousands of other people who will be distressed and triggered by it too. Tumblr loves to take those posts and mass recommend them.

Do you wonder why? Do you think its to help us or hurt us to blast us with screenshots of new slurs? I think its to hurt us.

“identifying as an animal is cringe.” ❌

“here’s 5 dollars” ✅

“all physical therians are delusional and need help.” ❌

“here’s 5 dollars” ✅

“factkins aren’t valid.” ❌