ALEXA DEMIE

is it just me or does anyone else agree that a white christmas is overrated? send me off on a proper holiday at an all-inclusive resort on a tropical island where i can run around shirtless in my swim trunks with a piña colada in hand, please and thank you. i would much prefer that over freezing in the wintery new york cold, waiting with thousands of other people in times square simply to watch a damn ball drop. / @hillsfmsstarters

you'll never catch me agreeing to that. growing up in los angeles, you tire of the hot sun even on the holidays. a nice change of space is more than welcome to my life. even if it means holing up in some cabin while it snows outside because i can't handle the cold. where are you thinking of spending the holidays?

we've all watched these shows on tv and always thought those guessing games are super easy and we'd win them sitting on our couch, right? fun fact, they are only easy because you are on your couch and have nobody witnessing it because the moment those cameras are on? it's like taking a test in school and all knowledge is gone. guess what I am trying to say is, if you film me while challenging me I will fail miserably and then be upset about it for weeks. @hillsfmsstarters

i've always thought it's harder when the spotlight is on you. a lot like when someone asks you a question and you just keep blanking, can't think of anything when on the spot. happens to me far more than i'd admit. don't worry, you're safe with me. and kudos on the new film, i had goosebumps hearing you sing. you're so talented!

So, I just got back from visiting WDW and man - I don't think anyone can out do Disney when it comes to making you feel festive as hell during the holidays. Did I eat my way through my stay in gingerbread cookies shaped as Mickey Mouse? I sure did. I also eat more churros than I should have, but zero fucks were given. But since I'm talking about snackies here - what is everyone's favorite holiday snack and why?

I'm due for a nice little Disney trip for the holidays. I've been in full Martha May Whovier mode this whole time. Even with the getting on the roof to set up decorations vibes. There's no task too hard when it's the holidays, but I really haven't had the chance to hit Disney yet. A nice little hot cocoa with fireworks ending in Snoap. A dream come true. There's never a limit when it comes to churros. Especially during this time of year. These are the rules. I'd say probably hot cocoa. Nothing sets the mood better for me.

those are all really cute ideas. i remember my mum got me and my brother our first ornaments when we were babies, so passing on that same routine with my daughter is a must. do you have any special traditions or plans for this holiday season?

the more the merrier when it comes to little memory tidbits like that. i haven't really discussed it with my husband, but i'd love to get some going. some of the cheesy common ones like gingerbread house making and stocking decorating. i don't know. whatever Pinterest throws at me, i suppose. how about you? have you narrowed it down since we last spoke?

Did know you were married, congratulations honey. Well, I mean I guess I did because it's Luke Hemmings I just didn't want to assume with everything I've been seeing from time to time but that's besides the point. I hope you had a great dinner with the hubby.

Thank you and don't worry, I never really expect people to know the inner workings of my personal life. It went great. How did your cooking go? I need to get my hands dirty in the kitchen more often myself.

yes, we are! it's relatively recent news. thanks a bunch, babe. ugh, should i start bugging luke about it too? i never realized until now just how much i needed this to happen with you. you really are trying to get me physically hurt, huh? first the toe, and now this. i can be a human shield, but i'm also a pretty fast runner. if things get too dicey, i might leave you behind. oh no, we're not quite at that point yet. it's maddi. i couldn't imagine my life without a maddi, ha. please feel free to come over anytime, too, when you need a break from your hubby. girls' nights are absolute favorites of ours. i'm really glad you and him are in a good place right now. and you know you can always confide in me if things aren't going so well, right?

ain't it sweet how love grows in the most unexpected of places? my heart... ever since i got married, i've been a total sap. it's actually fucking gross. no, i'm not trying to do that! i'm just saying that i'm not above using you as a shield. i'm a huge coward when it comes to critters. i'm sorry, i wish i was a better person than that. see, you're no better than me. already threatening to leave me behind. listen, i don't know what the right pace for relationships is. clearly. i got married so quickly. moving in is second date stuff. i might just take you up on that. i need to cash in my syd time after ages without you, babe. of course, thankfully there's no need for that right now.

I couldn't have worded it better. Christmas tends to steal the spotlight with all the festive decorations, joyful gatherings, and gift-giving traditions. New Year's often sneaks in quietly after the rush of Christmas, but it's still a great time for reflection and fresh starts as we ring in the new year. That's exactly it, though I can't help but feel a bit sorry about those who are single and all their friends are coupled up and have no one to celebrate it with, but I still love the holiday! I personally do love the Christmas aesthetic, it's November and I can't recall how many plaid pajamas and Christmas mugs I bought. You got to taste everything if they don't kick you out of the kitchen because you're slowing down the process and I speak from experience.

We do have to admit that the traditions surrounding Christmas are far superior. There's also just so many. Some of these holidays just can't compete with that. New Years just blends into the holiday Christmas madness. It's an after thought and I hate that! Oh, but Valentine's Day is also about friendships. Can't focus too much on the couples when you have the best group of girls to focus on instead. Galentine's day for the win! Can still enjoy all the cutesy pink stuff comfortably. Taste testing is never an issue for this gal. Sign me up!

as a new mum i have been trying to figure out how i can make my daughter's first christmas memorable. i know she's still a new born and she probably has no idea what's going on, but she is my first and i'm just so excited to do all these fun things with her. so yeah, any seasoned parents want to give me some ideas on how to make christmas memorable for my mini me? @hillsfmsstarters

i'm not a mom by any means, but my mom made sure we all had mementos from our first christmas. we had the whole 'first christmas' ornaments, the matching pajamas, the little oven baked handprints situation. i know pinterest probably has a lot of cool ideas like that. just be sure to take all the pictures! she might not remember it, but she can look back at these physical memories.

In that case i should had called you to find me a home, next time i move i am giving you a call, oh congratulations on your dream house, i am sure it's great, it's okay i actually called Kylie and she found me the perfect place so now i am just working on the final details.

i feel like i must of seen every home available for purchase in los angeles this past year. it was that extreme, but it's my first home with my husband. it just needed to be perfect, y'know? that's great. what area did you settle into?

it was an amazing experience, as always. it actually helped glen and me reconnect, too, so now we're taking things seriously. i'm actually set to go back after thanksgiving weekend to shoot another movie. am i the luckiest? absolutely. did i maybe purposely look for another role that would take me back there? maybe. hey, if our paths cross there, we should definitely take it as a sign to visit the irwin zoo together. no need for a man to have a great time there. holidays with luke's family sound delightful, though. how are things going? does he behave himself? congratulations on finding the perfect home, by the way. and you're welcome for the idea. i'll keep in mind my room for when my roommate drives me too insane and i need a break. although, that's never going to happen, so i might just randomly stop by for a pajama party.

oh, are you two dating now? are congratulations in order for you two love birds? now i'm going to ask luke to take me sooner than intended in hopes that i can run into you. we need to experience the zoo together. just be aware that i fully intend on using you as a shield if one of the critters comes after us. he does, he's been well behaved. both of us have been. is the roomie glen? because listen, as much as i adore men, sometimes we need our girl time. you'll always have me for that. mani-pedi self-care nights for always.

So this week I already know is going to be crazy so I'm not even going to stress myself over it. I am going to go to the store today and buy everything I need for what I need to cook. Then, I will not be coming out of the house for a little while because sheesh. What are you doing Thursday? @hillsfmsstarters

I don't have any plans set in stone since I don't really celebrate. I'll probably have a nice dinner in with my husband. Store bought or restaurant made to be exact. What are you making?

New Year's is a whole different vibe, and it's kind of surprising no one's brought it up yet. Valentine's Day is a beautiful day since they made it friendship oriented too, I love getting my friends some flowers on that day. You've got some serious smooch plans with your husband, never enough kisses, right? Cooking might not be your forte, but being the adorable assistant is a vital role too and honestly, I think I'll take you as an example and that's gonna be me too this year.

Christmas is the it girl of the holidays. She takes up everyone's attention and New Year's is often an afterthought. Yes, I love the friendship aspect of it. The idea of spreading love and whatnot. I'm also a huge fan of the aesthetic. Who doesn't love a baby cherub shooting couples with his arrow of love? There's also all the pink and the candy hearts. So cute. The Christmas aesthetic is just not it. Never enough when we're talking about that gorgeous man. I'm telling you it's the way to go. You also get to test taste everything. It's the perfect role.

spending more time together? that's a plan i can totally get behind. hopefully it'll happen soon now that i'm back in the states. being in australia was a dream but i wouldn't dream of letting you return to euphoria without me—we've got to keep each other on our toes. so, hypothetically, if i were to move somewhere else, it'd be a few years down the line—once euphoria is over to avoid breaking your heart, unless they decide to continue without me, of course. i haven't had the chance to visit the irwin zoo but it's definitely on my bucket list. the incredible work they do there and the chance to see all that amazing wildlife up close? who wouldn't want that? it would be an absolute blast to experience it together. maybe one day in the future. you should totally get your hubby to organize the trip, considering he's more familiar with the places. i've already decided to invite myself to your housewarming party once you and luke find a new place, by the way. thanks.

it's long overdue if you ask me. how did australia treat you? i'll be down there for the holidays myself with my family. we're celebrating at luke's family home. it'll be great, but i'm not too thrilled about all the critters. hopefully sam gets the show on the road. i know all the strikes happened and everything was at a standstill, but our schedules will fill up soon enough. he snoozes, he loses. that's so funny that you have the irwin zoo on yours. it's on mine too and i keep bugging luke about taking me. i had the biggest crush on steve growing up. sh, don't tell anyone. i'll fly the idea by him. i'm sure he's going to love doing that. he's been pretty excited about my spending time down there since the flight is always too much for me. i wasn't having a party before, but now you've put the idea in my mind. we also just so happened to have found a home already. there's a room with your name all over it, doll.

Not me raising my hand awkwardly because I do enjoy it. Luke and I just finally found our dreamhouse and we'll be signing the papers soon, but I had my fun with it. Probably prolonged it more than I should've. It got tedious in the end, but you can't rush these things. You have to be fully sure. No, it's not dramatic. I can totally see why it could get to be a bit much. If you need help, I'm always happy to offer my services.

Our hearts are torn between Thanksgiving and Christmas but I'm going to give you something else to worry about: New Year's. Who already has each and every resolution for the upcoming year listed? Have you got a special someone to kiss as we usher in 2024? And most importantly, what are you going to make for dinner? Maybe this has just been an excuse for you to give me simple ideas and not have to put in much effort but I'm also interested to know if you're ready for the coming year and what plans you have for it. | @hillsfmsstarters

You're truly throwing in a new holiday into the fold. Nobody's mentioned New Year's yet and that's a total shame. Though, my favorite holiday is Valentine's Day. I do, I'll be kissing my husband until he gets tired of me and then some more. I'm not sure if I'll cook. That's more of my mom's thing. I'm just the cute little assist. What about you?