Intimacy do not always mean sex...
Wash her hair for her
Help her shave
Cook a meal together
Write her a letter⦠about her(no actually write it)
Shower together (or bath)
Body rubs and massages work well (especially her feet and booty)π
When sheβs removing polish from her fingersβ¦grab a cotton ball and remove the polish from her toes
After she showersβ¦meet her with a dry towel and dry her off
When sheβs dry rub her down with coconut oil(or whatever she prefersβ¦
TALK: about her dayβ¦her goalβ¦her opinionsβ¦
Listen to herβ¦
Form secret code words that only you and her will understand if said publicly
Build memories togetherβ¦.
JUST A FEW SUGGESTIONSβ¦.Reblog if you have some suggestions to add.
Dress her, smoothing each piece into place.
Feed her, at a picnic, or with finger food.
Kiss her for four hours.
Mmmmmmβ¦Sweet!
Paint her toenails.
Give her a foot massage.
Backrubs (without ending up with a dick in her)
Facial massages.
Get the same tattoo in the same place on each of your bodies
Do the chores for her that she hates one week.
Find her passion. Take her to theatre, concert, museum, or destination.
All. Of. THIS.
all of this and more β¦..
one of my favorite things is to be undressed by himβ¦. and taken care of by himβ¦.. one of the most romantic things ever is to know you are taken care ofβ¦.
Brush her hair
Make the first pot of coffee
Long hugs
Cuddle by the fire
Cook a meal together
Go on a new adventure
I am beyond grateful that my M does quite a bit of this, and without having to be asked. I love him with every cell in my body, and I know that I certainly donβt deserve him.












