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this is such a harmful mindset within the lgbtq+ space?? telling someone their sexuality is wrong bc of who they used to like, isn’t that just as bad as saying that someone can’t identify as a lesbian bc they’ve never tried being with a man? it’s gatekeeping lesbianism, surely??? this person claims that comp het doesn’t exist bc they personally have never experienced it, and that it’s ‘scary’ that people on tik tok are coming out as a lesbian after previously identifying as straight or bisexual. it’s such a hateful and disappointing mindset imo. maybe i’m not educated enough on the topic tho, im open to hear other opinions.

i’m like do i like him too? but as a friend? or more? the idea of being in a relationship w him is great but the idea of.. other stuff is really not and makes me feel disgusted. but ‘other stuff’ with women?? is fine. so,,, am i just gay or is this something people experience? is it trauma related? i need help

anyways