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Dreya: Alright let me chill. *takes the shot as she listens to her and chuckles softly, dancing in her seat* Yes it’s meeeee, ooo I’m feeling a little shy. *chuckles* I’m playing, what’s up y’all? I’m Dreya and I’m so excited to be here on my baby’s podcast talking to y’all.

Not you got shy on me like thattt. *she said chuckling talking to her.* Yesss I’m so glad to have you here finallyyy. It’s been a long time coming but we made it ya’ll. What you been up to Dreya aside from lookin cute on the gram. Me I been out here in these streets being a heathen to the fullest extent, but in a very good wayyy. *she said laughing.*

Dreya: Yeah and I’m just glad to be here now. Girl. *laughs*A good way. Where you find people to be a heathen with at all?! I meet the sweetest souls, none of them be on demon time with me and my life is always demon time. *chuckles* I’ve been trying to balance working and a social life chile, its exhausting. How you do it?

I’m the heathen, I’m the one that’s the bad influence these days girl. *she said laughing.* No I meet some sweet people too but after so long it’s time to get onnattt. *she said laughing* I don’t do it that’s how. I’m either all in with work, or I’m all in with my social life and lately I feel I just found the perfect balance within like the past two weeks. So girl I couldn’t even tell you how to do it. Just know I struggle with it too, next week i’ll be ready to hit the streets. *she said laughing.*

Dreya: You can be a bad influence with me whenever you like. I’m sure your listeners agree too. *chuckles* And there is nothing wrong with being sweet, but I need the opposite of it sometimes. The streets been welcomed me back and I’ve been neglecting it. I gotta do better.

*she laughs* I will for sure keep that in mind next time i’m doing something I don’t need to be doing. I’m always so nice and sweet so sometimes I gotta act up. *she chuckled lowly.* Alright so let’s get into some thangssss. I have a little topic here that I thought would be pretty cool. We was talking about this the other day as well. So do you feel like single men and women should avoid dating people with kids? Me personally ehhh, I kinda feel like its a preference thing. But then again, I feel like mmm why you wanna take on that extra responsibility by dating a parent. *she said to her.* But how you feel about it?

Dreya: You are. You remind me of bubbles. *laughing* Well me personally when I’m whipped things I say I would avoid, I don’t. *chuckles* I don’t want kids any time soon but if I met someone that had me going crazy for em… call me step mama Dreya. Like you said, it is a preference thing and I understand why. Kids have baby daddy or baby mama baggage and people don’t wanna deal with it. I saw this girl on tiktok that went viral cause she and her baby daddy made a video kissing and they both have partners and it was something like they’ll never leave each other alone no matter who they date. Then why not be with each other instead of dragging other people in it? That happens too much.

*she laughs listening to her.* Oh no ma’am not whippppedd! *she nods her head.* Thisss, that’s the part I can’t get with. Because I understand you’re thankful for your kid and the person that gave your baby life, but excuse the fuck outta you bro. That’s always been like my biggest reservation dating people with a child or kids. I know at this moment I don’t want kids so if I choose to put myself in that sticky situation, I’m kind of asking for whatever comes with that. But then on the other hand I’m like aighttt bring me the rug rat let’s go to the park. But even that can be an issue for the mom and how she feels about things. So it’s like damn what can I really do with a person that has a kid? *she laughs* But I heard baby daddy dick is good dick, so I’m tryna see what that be likeee. *she said laughing.*

Dreya: I can’t see myself as a mother. I have a long way to go until I get there. A very long way. *laughing* Maybe you don’t meet the kid until you’re both ready. Best of both worlds. Wishful thinking. You’re right because a lot of people don’t want their kids around whoever the other parent is dating. It’s a hard situation and I’d advise staying away if it’s not something you’re willing to work on and accept. Girl. I heard that too. *chuckles* I don’t know if they got pent up anger there, but I’m trynna see something. *laughing*

I can see mother in my future but not too soon though. *she said laughing* But what if I meet the kid and we don’t get along, like the kid literally hate me all cause I’m tryna be nice. Whole relationship over with after that. *she chuckles a little* But what if its the mama and the kid both working against you. Like nah daddy don’t need to be with that heffa so we gone do this and that to make sureee it don’t work. See i’d be hurt as hell and ready to line the whole family tree up. *she laughs* I think that’s what it be, like he done had to deal with all that bullshit so when he get to you, he bout take yo ass straight to pound town and not even hold back. *she laughs* Hellloooo grab my wig and pull it off sirrr.

Dreya: I think you’d be a cute mom. I would be a hot ass mess. Forgetting little Susie in the house everyday. Nahhhh. *laughing at Reese’s scenarios* It worked out for Ice Cube when the kids ain’t like him. They put him through hell and look at them now, a loving family with Nia Long. But for me, if they were both working against me, I’d want to stay to make them mad at that point. Shove it in their face. *chuckles* What would you do if this person checked off everything perfectly, from how they are, how they treat you, the sex, how y’all are together but they have a kid that don’t like you? *laughs* When you put it like that… hey all you stressed out parents, my @ name is d-r-e-y-a-h and I have a variety of wigs to pull off. *chuckling* I hope these people know I’m playing.. half playing.

Nuh uhhh kids steal your youth, I can’t be bothered with that just yet. *she said laughing she listens to her talking* Bitchhhh byeeee okay! *she said laughing again.* I can’t lie my petty would be on for a few weeks then I’d have to let them gone and be a lil family or whatever. *she listens to her thinking.* That’s tough but in reality, that child is and will always come before me. So I’m not even gone put myself through that. That’s how crazy hoes are madeee, cause next thing you know i’m keying the car and putting sugar in the ac reservoir tank and it’s just all bad after that. *she chuckles* Ya’ll heard her, a variety, a blue wig would def be the go to okayyy. Soo since we are here, I gotta ask. When it comes to doing things in the bedroom for the first time with a new partner. Do you go all out or do you ease the freaky out slowly. I’ma a slow freak, dependingggg on how much I like you though.

Dreya: *laughing* Whenever I listen to mother's say the opposite I'm like.. sure Jan, whatever floats your boat, that's not for me. *chuckles* I feel you, after awhile the petty gets tiring. That's true though, the kid will always come first and even though it's first over you, that's how it should be. It's expected and I'm selfish. I need to be your all until we decide to have kids then I'll be able to share . *laughing* Bye! You're sugaring tanks? Always the quiet ones. Oo.. good question. Can I say it depends on the person? I've learned the hard way to read the room. *laughing* Not everyone can get with too freaky the first time. The last time I had sex I had to dull it down a lot for their ego and it was boring, for me. I'm not saying every time has to be a full on porn show, but doing the same boring thing every single time in the same boring location drives me nut so I guess for the first time, show me a little something freaky so I know it won't be bland that gets me wanting more and I'll do the same.

*She listen to her talking and agrees with her.* Exactly, i’m not competing with no child, plus I’m a tad bit selfish. I want my first child to be his first child so how that’s gone work. *she laughs some.* I mayyy or may not have done that back in the dayyy. *she listens to her talking before she gives her answer.* Yess like i’ll unleash level four freak and a nigga will be like damn you freaky, whole time that’s nothing compared to what I wanted to do. But at the same time I’m neverr tappin full porno unless I’m just ready to rip your clothes off your body from the rip. What’s the most exciting place you’ve had sex? Because I can for sure agree, keep it wild and let me see a lil something so I can know what level I need to take you to for the next time.

Dreya: I used to want that, but now I don't know what I want. *laughing at her answer* see you. Agreed, you can't always give your full hundred the first time. They'd have to be special as hell for that, personally speaking. I'm trynna meet someone like that though. *chuckles* Let me forget about the little bit of moral that I have left. The most exciting place.. Does while the person driving count? That felt like pure ecstasy.. if not, a dressing room. That was fun. I think the excitement was not getting caught, the adrenaline, and what we actually did more than the place but I get flashbacks about that one. What about you? What's yours?

First time I’m for sure giving 25 percent with a lil razzle dazzle in the end. *she said laughing.* But if i realllly like the person, male or female cause I do like to dip in the lady pond every now and then. *she chuckles* I’ll give them the best that I got in the words of Anita bakerrr. *she listens to her talking* ooh okayy you tryna dieee in that bihhh. *she laughs* It’s always a thrill in doing something somewhere you ain’t suppose to be that makes it exciting as hell. For meeee…I gave a lil head over by the hollywood sign. Was it risky risky, yeaa kinda sorta but it was a date night so heyy. I think that’s bout as exciting as I’ve gone aside from the wild car sex, or the lil slip and dip in the club. *she giggles* Whewwww college was fun I’ll say that.

Dreya: A little razzle dazzle. *chuckling* This always starts arguments, but women do it better. I've never had a man make me cum as much as a woman does in one night. Most men, not all before people get offended, don't take the time to study or know the women body but women, they sure as hell do. *chuckles* A date with you and head? I know he was happy as hell. *laughing* Club slip and dips used to be my favorite. I can't remember the last time I went to a club. I need to change that. *chuckles* It was fun. I was stripping throughout college and there was never a dull night.

I can agree, women are often times more in tune to what they’re doing. Our goal is to please, and if you have two pleasers then the results will absolutely be different. *she said to her* I can agree, I feel like dudes tend to say the wrong things to me which turns me off. If you miss me don’t lead with I miss sex with you and expect me to be happy cause I’m not and now you annoying so I gotta go. *she chuckles* I was a good time I’ll say that and yesss club days was wilddd. I don’t even think I fit the club scene now, maybe a cute little lounge with the vibes or something. *she laughs* I think college should be a requirement, even if its just for the first semester. Go to them parties and have funnn. *she said to her.* Sooo as we get ready to wrap this up, Dreya tell the people what you have coming up and where they can find you out here in these social media streets. *she said as she prepares them one last shot.*

Dreya: Yes to all of that. They say the most off things and sometimes I wonder if they really thought that was okay or just went for it? *chuckles* If I have a short fuse and little patience for bullshit when dating or talking to someone, I'm working on it but it's hard out here. Agreed, I think I did it so much now it's not as thrilling like it used to be. I have to go again to see how I really feel about it. A free requirement, yes. *laughing* Oh yea, I'm opening a dance studio soon called the Trinity Dance Studio, located on Sunset Blvd. I found the right studio last year, shout out to Amil Moretti, my realtor, he did his thing finding the perfect spot. You can find him on instagram under his name. I've finished renovations and now we're decorating, shout out to my interior designer, Celeste Correa, her social media is also her first and last name. Gotta plug them in real quick. *chuckles* I open in May so be on the look out, I'll be posting it on my social media @d-r-e-y-a-h with our first classes being pole dancing and contemporary. If you stop by you might see Reese on a pole and who doesn't want that?

On the next episode we gone have to talk about men…maybe have a man on the show or something. *she said laughing* Cause I be needing answers to some of the foolishness. *she said chuckling* Yess free college or I mean if you have friends just go squat at their dorm for a semester, you’ll get away with it. Well when you go let me know and I’m coming with you. *she chuckles before she starts to listen to her as she speaks.* They gotta pay you for that promo sisss *she laughs* Not but for real check them out and I personally can’t wait until the studio opens next month. I will for sure be taking a couple of classes so you will absolutely see me in there swirling around the pole. Sooo with that being said, this has been an amazing episode of two shots and a kiss, featuring my very special guest Dreya. We hope that you all have enjoyed the show and now it’s shot time. *she chuckles as she hands Dreya a shot* Until next time Shottahs, besossss! *she said clicking her shot glass next to Dreya’s and downs her shot playing the outro music.*

Anddd we are backkk! Did you guys miss me? I missed talking to ya’ll. I’m not even gone front for you guys, I have been working my ass on behind the scenes to get some things going. So today’s show is just gonna be me kicking the shit with ya’ll. So I don’t think I ever told ya’ll about my wild ass college days, more specifically my freshman year of college. So for those of you that didn’t know, I graduated from FAMU. That was the closest thing to home being that I’m from Miami. So okay, freshman year you know how you pull up on campus like yeaaa I run this shit? Girllll if anybody would have told me sit my ass down knowing what I know now I would have listened. *she laughs* Freshman year for me was filled with hmm what’s the word I’m looking for…excitement I guess you can say that.

So anyways I had a best friend named Ty who I had been besties with since like middle school. So we was like well we going to the same college, we gone stay in the same dorm and such. So that’s what we did, we moved in our dorm ya’ll remember when pinterest had the girls decorating their dorms all cute and extra? That was us chile we had violated every code in that room but it was cute and that’s all that mattered. So anyways the first week rolls around we had started making lil friends and by now we had a lil crew, everybody had they lil ugly crushes. All of the things freshmans do for fun, we did them. Like some big ass kids for real, so the crew was Greg, Ty, Whitney, Ciara, Mauriece, and Ashley. Those was my friends cause those was the people that I hung with daily. Now I had a crush on greg. Why? Cause Greg was fine as hell. So I made Greg my man, like immediately, but then as I started to see the other dudes my eyes lit up like a kid in the candy store. So Greg was my man but I also had another man that was a upperclassmen. Big mistake on my part! *she said sighing before laughing some.* Ya’lllll so anyways, his name was Deandre Williams, he played football he was from Texas.

So anyways, how I got away with having 2 boyfriends for like 2 months I don’t know. But I did until one day, I got caught. And when I say I got caught a bitchhhh got caught. So I was with Deandre minding my lil business in the café and here comes greg and his friends and I was like like shit. Greg saw me and if looks could kill, I’d be six feet right now. He didn’t say nothing though, he just nodded his head like bet. So I already knew what that meant. When I say I hit feet and ran out that café to go find Ty ass I was gone. So a few days go by and Greg was ignoring me, like paying me dusttt! But then all of a sudden the boys started playing pranks on us. I’m like okay well maybe he still my boyfriend so we doing this prank shit back and forth, nothing too crazy right? Nahhhh my nigga wronggg! So we on like day 4 or 5 and I’m just tired of playing cause now niggas was getting too serious. They was literally coming in me and Ty’s dorm and like moving shit around. Hiding stuff so I’m like okay we can stop. So me and ty went to their dorm and was like yo aight we done playing where our shit. Greg like aint nobody got ya’ll shit ya’ll come here bothering us. So I was like ooh shawty mad for real these aint no friendly ass pranks. So I was like forget it Ty let’s just go back to our dorm. So we leave out they room but not before we played one last prank on them.

We had a backpack full of balloons filled with all kind of nasty shit and soon as we left the room we literally had to move fast as hell. So we just started throwing the balloons and shit is everywhere and we take off running back to our dorm. Of course they chased us the whole way there. But bitch we was gone. *she laughs* So we get back to our dorm and we chillin and we keep hearing like or door handle jiggling but nobody knocking on the door. So i’m confused like what in the hell is going on. So next thing you know our room just start stanking realll bad like them fart sprays, and Ty’s ass is so asthmatic she starts coughing like crazy. So im like aw naw she not bout to die in here with me. Now remind you I said we heard the handle jiggling right. So I goes to open the door to get some fresh air and all I hear is niggas laughing and Im like ummm whattt. Mind you Ty back there hacking her life up and i’m steady trying to get the door unlocked.

So finallllly the RA comes after beating on the door yelling like call 9-1-1 cause that’s all I knew to do. So they finally free us from the dorm and these niggas literally had tied our door shut to the door across from us. So like nobody could get out they rooms. So nowww I’m pissed, ready to fight cause they almost killed Ty. So the school is like oh we have to do an investigation blah blah. We like okay cool, so they was like we have footage and they asked us to review it. Bitchhhhh when that ran it back, Guess who was on the footage? GREG, MAURIECE, and my man Deandre, talk about betrayed! I was hurtttt! They was like do ya’ll know who that is, we was like nah we don’t. So you know i had to get revenge right? Chileee, when I say me and Ty waited weeks before we did anything, and by then both my men had new hoes. So I wanted to fight, cause what you not gone do is talk to any nigga I had in my face. *she laughs* Ughhh that’s some real possessive.