Send me a ship; Ultimate Edition | Accepting
Who was the one to propose: Phillip would be the one to propose. But I think it would be after they’ve known each other for a few months, possibly a year. With Mulan being a peasant and Phillip being a prince, then there would be some conflict and I think Phillip would try to resolve all that before he proposes to Mulan, and he’d do it without Mulan knowing.
Who stressed more over wedding planning: Well, they would most likely have the court advisers plan it with some of their input. Mulan would probably stress more about the wedding in general because she would never think she’d end up marrying a prince. In modern verse, I think she would still be the one to stress about it more as I see Phillip being more relaxed about it. If anything he’s the one that helps calm her down when it seems she’s stressing out too much about it.
Who decorated the house: I think they both would decorate it, in both modern and main verse. In main verse I think Phillip would be open to allowing Mulan to add a few items to it that remind her of home so she felt more at home within the castle. Then of course there would already be his own personal items given it’s his private wing of the castle. In modern verse, they talk about what they want in the house and make compromises about designs, furniture, and whatever else when they come up. It would be sort of a couples project for them and I can see them doing renos and painting together.
Who does the cooking: Phillip’s cooks? Well I think Mulan would try to get into the kitchens and try to make some dishes from China to have him try. Needless to say, she might give him food poisoning once or twice but Phillip just laughs it off and has her take care of him while he’s bed ridden as payment too. In modern verse, I think Mulan would do most of the cooking and even take cooking classes to get better so she doesn’t make either of them sick. Phillip helps out but would probably insist they get take out first.
Who is more organized: Their about equal but I think Mulan is just a tiny bit more organized. For Phillip if there’s a tiny mess it’s an organized mess and that usually is restricted to his desk. But if he leaves a mess elsewhere then Mulan usually goes along and cleans it up without saying a word to him. If he catches her cleaning it up then I think Phillip would help her and tell her not worry about it (which usually he’ll just get a small glare and told not to worry about it). But she knows not to touch the mess on his desk as much as she might want to.
Who initiates bedroom fun: Definitely Phillip. Mulan is extremely shy when it comes to such things and wouldn’t know where to begin. Phillip has at least some experience in the bedroom and would know how to coax her into it. Later on in their relationship and once she is more used to it she’ll initiate a few times but overall she would still rely on Phillip to do it.
Who suggested kids first: I think this another that Phillip would. Since he is heir to the throne and will then be king, he would need to have his own heir. After their married and he’s made king, I think he would bring it up with her. Once he has an heir then I think every other time it would be an equal split with who brings up having more children.
Who’s more dominant: Mulan but she allows Phillip to be from time to time. I don’t think she tries to be and part of it is because Phillip wishes to make her feel like she is control. During sex Phillip is the more dominate one but only because of how shy Mulan is during those moments. Once she does get comfortable then he let’s her be dominate and it yet again goes into Phillip wanting her to feel as if she is in control.
Who’s the cuddler: Yet again I think they’re about equal but Mulan possibly edges slightly ahead of him. The both of them enjoy cuddling in bed but I don’t think Mulan would shy away from a small displays of affection when they see one another in a hallway but he’s on his way to a meeting. She’d most likely steal a quick hug from him. And when they’re off on their little dates she would possibly make him hold her when they’re relaxing and Phillip wouldn’t complain in the slightest about that.
Who’s the big spoon/little spoon:. Phillip is the big spoon and Mulan is the little spoon. Sometimes Mulan ends up being the big spoon but it lasts for a few seconds before Phillip wakes up enough to roll over and holds her.
What’s their favorite non-sexual activity: Horseback riding/racing together. It was something that helped kick off their relationship and I don’t think they would stop that just because they became a couple. Fencing is another thing they do together. The both of them have different styles and they like testing one another. Though I think that one Mulan had to work a lot at to make Phillip agree to it, she possibly convinced him after beating a few of his knights to show that she is very skilled with a sword.
Who comes home drunk at 3am: Maybe Phillip? I don’t exactly see either of them doing it and if it is Phillip he doesn’t do that often. He might do it to celebrate something but I think he would take Mulan with him and she would make sure he doesn’t drink that much. Even when he does get drink then she would take care of him and force him to go to bed/retire to their chambers.
Who kills the spiders: Neither of them since I don’t think either of them are afraid of spiders? Oneofthemkilledafreakingdragonandtheotherputherlifeonthelinetosaveherfathernothingreallyscaresthem
Who falls asleep first: It bounces between the two of them. If Phillip needs to stay up late to get some work done then I think Mulan would try and stay up too but would eventually fall asleep (which then leads Phillip to carrying her to bed). But if Phillip had a long day then he would be the one to go to asleep first. If that happens then Mulan would usually get into bed too and even if she isn’t tired she’d at least cuddle up to him.
A head canon: Mulan was offered a position within the kingdom’s army thanks to Phillip. In the beginning it was frowned upon as she was a foreigner and a woman but Phillip convinced his father and the court that her skills were just as good as their soldiers. She rose through the ranks and by the time that she and Phillip marry she was made a general. Even as queen she continued to fight in the army but only when the battles were close to the kingdom and as long as she wasn’t pregnant.
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Do they have any “rituals”? I would say Phillip tries to have every meal with her. Granted it doesn’t always work but he does try to do it and only doesn’t in extreme cases (he’s away or he’s being called away for something very important). He also sets aside a couple of days during the week where he can spend the whole day with her. Those days they usually do whatever they want, from lounging around their quarters to go off horse backing riding together.
Who is louder? I think they’re about equal but Mulan would definitely try to be quiet more. Again, she would be very shy when it comes to bedroom antics and it would take some coaxing from Phillip and him easing her into it to make her more comfortable. But once she is I think she would match Phillip in volume. So if he’s loud then she is too.
Who is more experimental? Phillip would put farther the idea more than Mulan would. After hearing what sort of idea he would she would agree or voice her own thoughts on it. 90% of the time she’d be open to trying it since she would think it would make Phillip happy.
Who takes more risks? They both take risks. Possibly in different ways but they both do it. Phillip maybe a little bit more than her and he tries to convince her to do them too, which she would eventually do.
Do they fuck or make love? Make love. I don’t see them starting to have sex until they’re both convince they love the other. And then it would be a bit of time before Mulan finally caves in and has sex before marriage, since she would still be in the mindset that it is something saved for married couples. But I think if either of them got into a heated moment that she’d cave and along with it, especially if Phillip assured her that he wouldn’t think of doing it with anyone else.
Lights on or off? Well, the only light they’d have is candlelight so…I guess a bit of both? Really, I think for their slow sex moments they’d do it by low candlelight and their more heated moments they wouldn’t care but it would probably be dark. It’s just a matter of their mood and whether or not they had lighted candles beforehand. In modern verse, I think they’d always do it with lights off.
Who is more likely to be caught masturbating? Neither of them since I don’t think they’d masturbate once their relationship reaches the sexual point?
Who is more likely to suggest a threesome? Again this is something neither of them would suggest. Mulan would not be comfortable bringing in another person and I think Phillip would respect that. I also don’t think Phillip would be all that happy bring in another man just like Mulan wouldn’t be happy if another woman was brought into something that should only be between the two of them. (I really see them being protective of the other)
Who comes first? Phillip would always make sure that Mulan came first even if it meant holding back himself. He’d always make her be the priority when it comes to their love making, even when Mulan is the dominate one. It frustrates her a little during those moments but it’s basically become a habit of his.
Who is better at oral and who prefers it? I think the both of them prefer oral but Phillip is the one that is more skilled. He teaches Mulan how to do it and she tries to do it whenever she can but it usually ends up with Phillip doing it on her.
Who is more submissive? Mulan but once she gets used to their sex life she tries to be more dominate. But in the early stages she is definitely the more submissive one as she’s acknowledges that Phillip has more experience than her in that area and is willing to follow his lead and learn from him.
Who is more sensitive? Mulan is definitely more sensitive and Phillip takes full advantage of that, which usually leads to Mulan curse at him in Chinese due to his teasing. But she tries and learns his sensitive areas so she can use those against him as revenge. It soon becomes a game for them and one that Mulan tends to lose.
Who has the most patience? I think Mulan has a bit more patience than Phillip does. That isn’t saying much as she is a bit hot tempered but she can control it a bit more than Phillip. Most of the time they usually rely on the other to be the one to calm them down.
Which kinks do they share? I honestly have no idea what sort of kinks these two would have. Possibly something that was brought up due to one of Phillip’s experiments? I think it’s safe to say at the start they wouldn’t have any but some might develop as their sex life goes on.