Domina Jen

A few pictures, two tickets, from a trip we took last year A handful of memories, some still seem clear Few regrets, couple melodies, that remind me of you Well, I could say that I won’t miss this But that wouldn’t be the truth…  There’s no one here to blame and this is the only way There’s nothing left for us, to say… It’s time to let you go, it’s what we have to do It’s time to give…

This is a guest post written by my friends over at Gentlemen4Hire. I’m not being paid or anything, I just really support them and the services they offer, and while I don’t have a ton of readers in the UK, I think they deserve some love, and I love the idea of gentlemen escorts in general. If you happen to live in the UK, definitely check them out. Women Empowerment and the Rise of Gentlemen…

So I’m home, and like I always do when I travel, I got sick, so I’ve felt like death ever since the airport. So this post is actually a little delayed, but I couldn’t not tell this story. Our vacation was the best ever. I mean, it’s weird, I wasn’t planning on sleeping with half the hotel. Because it’s not exactly an intelligent decision to sleep with half the hotel right at this particular…

So I’m a teensy bit aggressive and confrontational. I also have a distinct lack of patience. This has led to me occasionally punching someone in the face when they cross a line. But I’ve been working on that. I haven’t punched anyone in in face in like six months. But okay, to be fair, seriously, that guy deserved it. And I don’t regret punching him at all. It was December, and the casinos…

Fair warning, y’all, I’m drunk. And I ramble uncontrollably when I’m sober, you think I get less talkative when I’m inebriated? Hehehehehe…… So I’m in Mexico. This is our first vacation since the pandemic, so of course, there are hoops to jump through, and the resort is at half capacity (and half staff), and we have to wear our masks, and social distance, blah blah blah. But honestly, it’s not…

History’s Badass Bitches, part 3

So I’ve done one of these on the Amazons, and one on a Spartan queen named Arachidamia, but they were some of the posts that were lost, so I’ll have to rewrite them. Which I’ll do at some point, when I’m feeling productive. Today, though, since it’s the 4th of July, I figured I’d be all patriotic and shit, and talk about a woman who helped build Nevada. I was born and raised in Nevada, and I…

So some of you may know I’m kind of a fan of vibrating wands. I have mine, it’s my favorite and I adore it. But it’s dying, as it does every few years. I was planning on replacing it with the same brand I always get. Then I got an email with an offer to write a review for Adam and Eve, in exchange for a free toy and a commission for any orders made through this post. I had mixed feelings. So…

I received an interesting comment on my chastity post. There’s a lot wrong with the guy’s mindset to begin with, but he was polite and respectful in his questions, and he’s not the first guy to ask these specific questions, so I decided to answer them in a post of their own. His comment will be heavily edited because a) it’s long, and we all know not-rambling isn’t one of my strengths, and I’m…

So… Some of you may remember awhile back, when my site went down, and even the tech support guy was like, “I got nothing,” and I halfway fixed it to the point that it functioned and decided, “Meh, that’s good enough.” Well, it all finally kind of exploded. I’m on a first-name basis with the tech guy at GoDaddy and I’ve had to switch my hosting platform, whatever the hell that means, and oh my…

First, it’s been a really crazy month for me. I’ve got a lot of shit going on, that I don’t really want to get into, and until I make sure it’s all better and taken care of, I might be a little slow to update the blog and answer emails and comments.

If you’re waiting for an email from me, I promise I haven’t forgotten about you. I don’t know when I’ll be able to send replies, but they are coming.

Guys, they tried to drown Kazander.

No, like literally, it was practically waterboarding. It was the coolest fucking thing ever.

So there’s this woman who reads the blog and reached out to me (we’ll call her Diva). We went out for drinks and had a blast, but because I’m totally shit at remembering to text/email people back, that was the only time we hung out.

But Kazander and I walked into the…

Um… oops

So who wants to take a guess where I went last weekend?

Three guesses. Go ahead.

The club was great. Kazander and I had some fun, and then I fucked…

The Stud.

Not his real name, by the way. But everyone at the club knows his real name, because people usually start shouting it as soon as he walks in.

He’s a regular, and he’s a straight-up celebrity. A damn legend.

Why?

Well, you know how basically

Jen,

As a Dominant Woman, I think we’re often expected to be confident and secure in ourselves, 24/7.

However, I’m starting to wonder how realistic that is. Especially given attitudes of vanilla and more traditional men.

This became a topic of conversation the other night, while out at a bar with some of my girlfriends. I quickly realized within minutes of talking to a man at the bar that the…

Big surprise, I went back to the swingers’ club this past weekend.

Rusty and the bodyguard were there, and I spent most of the night talking to them.

And I guess the bodyguard needs a name. He’s been so awesome, and has this uncanny ability to show up right when I need him, and save the day. He’s become like my guardian angel, and since I already know and dislike a guy whose scene name is…

Biggest badass in the building

So I’ve totally fallen in love with the swingers’ club, and went there again this past weekend.

Saturday night started out fantastic. I found a gorgeous trans girl early in the night, and ended up playing with her while Kazander watched. And that was a lot of fun.

Oh! But I was sitting on one of the couches, chatting with her, with my hand in her panties, enjoying myself.

But when we stood up to…

Oh my God, you guys.

You guys, oh my God.

How was my night? Let me sum it up for you, in one screenshot or less.

So I went to the club, looking to corrupt some sweet, innocent boy meat.

And actually, I’d had my eye on someone else. A regular, a hot guy I thought I might have a chance at turning.

It had been years since I’d turned a vanilla guy into a sexy, hot submissive, and I had that urge.

Bu…

So it’s been brought to my attention recently, by multiple people, that I use the word, “adorable” a lot.  And, more importantly, that I use it in contradicting ways.

This has, understandably, caused some confusion.  So I thought I’d take the opportunity to explain some of the different ways I use it.

Definition 1: The warm and fuzzies

This one is the easiest.  Anything that gives me a hefty dose…