whatever walked there, walked alone

sometimes a woman or nonbinary person will get into a relationship with a bare-minimum man after a string of experiences with actively malicious men, and the comparative upgrade is so shocking that she instantly becomes obsessed with her loser caveman boyfriend and starts centering the entirety of her life around him and his wants. I feel like this phenomenon is common enough that we need a term for it. I nominate "jakeyfication"

cameras are like sex and movie sets function exactly like bdsm spaces because they set the space for people to act in a particular way until someone says the word to stop the scene. and if the people involved in making a movie are insane enough sometimes you get under-negotiated activities which is what bdsm is trying to prevent by establishing consent. a director is a pervert who likes telling people what to do. genuinely what is filming but a way where you get to perform in a most honest version of yourself by inherently acting as someone else. introducing: #brechtianbdsm

the thing that drives me crazy about transmasc invisibility as a topic is that i DO think it's a problem, but i think the term gets misused a lot and i also think a lot of trans guys come to some pretty batshit conclusions on how trans women are treated

i think maybe we can talk about how we are routinely erased from conversations about reproductive care, abortion, gynecology, etc and then treated like we're annoying when we ask to be included without insinuating that trans women somehow benefit from it.

never forget what's really important: approval from pervert women on the internet

thing abt being some sort of dyke or lesbo is that you find yourself talking about girls with girls. clear conflict of interest, there.

so instead of saying "i would love to have sex with several of my close friends" in dms with a close friend, because that would make it a bit awkward, i instead say it here in front of like, everyone