Occultist

Happy holidays everyone! I wanted to share this because I’m someone that struggled on and off with my skin for years, but last year was my breaking point. If you feel like you’ve tried everything, accutane truly is a God send! It literally saved my skin.

These photos were the worst my skin has been but prior to these photos i thought it wasn’t so bad that I thought I needed accutane but I still wish I had done it sooner!

Sometimes the more “extreme” measure ends up being the saving grace lol.

2026 prompts

1) look back on 2025

what went well?

what didn’t go so well?

what do you wish to change?

what do you wish to continue?

2) think about your “ideal” self

what does she look like?

how does she behave?

what is her mindset like?

what are her hobbies?

what are her likes & dislikes?

how does she take care of herself? what are her habits like?

what/who are her inspirations?

what about her makes her “ideal” to you? how can your habits get closer to hers?

3) write about what your dream 2026 would look like

no limits! don’t worry about being “realistic” or what you think you’re capable of. what do you actually want?

4) write down your primary goals, and condense those goals into three main areas

ex.) relationships, health & fitness, finances, etc.

within those three areas, choose one primary goal to focus on. try to choose one that can also help you achieve your other goals. for example, if you want to go for more walks and lose weight, the primary goal of walking x amount each week can also help you lose weight long term.

other journal entry ideas

things i want to learn more about

wishlist

recipes/foods i wanna try

monthly favorites

healthy grocery list

things i want to try + how to do them

why should someone be rewarded for not being the best? for not putting in effort? I have worked with girls who, like me, want to be the best. they put in effort. they bring the fantasy. they take care of their nails, hair, skin, body, hygiene. they read books on seduction. they watch videos on sexuality. they give their all in bookings. and their clients ALWAYS come back, its no secret.

I have also worked with girls who do the bare minimum. who don't even bother to put on makeup, who don't work on conversation skills, don't give a fuck. it shows because they are the ones complaining about money. not being booked, clients not returning. sure, their marketing is fine still bare minimum. they don't spend on ads. photos are decent but they aren't fresh. these girls are surprised when their retention is shit. they are entitled. they do the bare minimum, so they get minimum results.

I will never be that person. I am too prideful. I prefer to be known as the best. I prefer to flip the switch and to leave a person awe-struck with how good I am at pretending. yes, its exhausting. but we are compensated VERY well for being a fantasy. If I expect $100k months, I had better be the sort of woman who commands it. Lazy people don't get ahead, full stop.

change your thoughts & your environment will change. there is no such thing as a slow period…unless you believe there is. your ethnicity does not limit you, unless you think it does. I am often told to consider the “reality” of being a black escort…that my white counterparts will always make more than me because they are white…I am told this is the “reality”. 

To that belief I say: it is “reality” and “truth” ONLY to the person focuses so much on it that it has manifested again and again for them. I don’t focus on those things ever. It doesn’t serve me. It’s a counterproductive belief to me. 

I choose to believe that I will get whatever I want, the “how” doesn’t concern me. I don’t permit myself to be submerged in a suffocating sea of misdirection; I am choosy about who I listen to. I mute so many girls on Twitter. I unfollow so many blogs of people complaining & making excuses. 

My mentors in this industry are women who have earned $100k a month. That is who I gather “truth” and “reality” from. In being in such close communication with these women I have learned that they are not special in ANY way except in the way they think. 

$10K in a night, easy. Securing a sponsor & credit card, done. Earning $60k from weekend dates & mutiple overnights, piece of cake. Leaving this industry a millionaire, more than possible. 

I have mentors because I will learn from their mistakes and fasttrack my success. It will take me half the time to achieve what they have achieved, and that will make them proud. In fact, I intend to surpass their success. 

*disclaimer: this is what has worked for me. I view sw as a real business with no ceiling. What you put into it is what you get out of it. I do not ascribe to the belief that color, weight, nationality etc. impact income. If that’s your belief, this post isn’t for you*

1. Invest in premium advertising. If you are online, you should be EVERYWHERE clients are. Don’t ask (is it worth it?) if you have never tried it. Find out for yourself. You are a unique brand. Get on Tw*tter, Tr*st, Sl*xa, Er*s, etc. Determine which sites are best for your city and use them all. If you don’t want to invest in premium adspace, you are not maximizing. There are hundreds of girls to choose from, why on earth would you not want to be the first who will show up? 

2. Keep your online presence clean. Keep the fantasy alive. There is no reason to argue with colleagues. If you don’t like someone mute or block them and keep it moving. You are here for CLIENTS. Unless you have duo partners, or a working relationship with someone what’s the point? Your goal is to make money & if you happen to make a friend along the way, fabulous. 

3. Professional photos & websites are a must as soon as you can afford them. It’s an investment. A mix of candid photos and professional are great for social media. It makes you seem real and relatable.

4. Create an aura around yourself of a woman who is alluring, sexy & booked. Do not ever complain about it being “slow” on socials. You should always, always make sure clients believe you are busy. They only want to see who other men are seeing. Imagine if a hair salon is complaining they have no clients, maybe you would see them out of pity but it wouldn’t be your first thought to do so.

5. Make it easy to book you. Men should have no hesitation when they book you. Have a clean, user-friendly website. No crazy fonts or music that auto-plays. Have 10-12 great photos where you look incredibly sexy. 

6. Streamline communications. I would recommend an auto-reply texting service on your burner phone and use your notes app to copy/paste canned responses. I prefer texting anyway, emails are overwhelming. I use both & they work well. 

7. Reviews. *sigh* This is a hotly contested topic, I can say when my rates were much lower I had clients who offered to write me reviews. They were helpful to my business and I was able to review the majority of my reviews before they posted (the client sent me a screenshot). GOOD reviews are great for business, they give men security and confidence that you’re real. Let’s face it, women are far more advanced. Not all of your clients will be the type to check out your reviews but it gives you the opportunity to build a great reputation. I would recommend doing this before nay rate increases as the hobbyist types have a range up to +$800 per hour. Maximize this while you can if your goal is to brand as “high end”. You can still use high end branding tactics with a lower rate, its actually an amazing strategy. Expensive to begin with but well worth it. 

8. Volume. You can be busy at any rate. I was busy at $500, $600, $700, $800, $1000+ per hour. Release that limiting belief. It’s silly. You can see as many men as you want to see. If this statement doesn’t sit well with you, or you feel an objection, change your belief about yourself. Simple.

9. Get into therapy. Enough said. Client facing social media is not a diary. 

10. Play up your best features. Wear clothes that hide your flaws and accentuate the best assets you have. 

11. Hygiene. Wear makeup to every fucking booking. Style your hair. Use boric acid suppositories at least once a month (esp after period). Condoms & lubricant affect the PH balance of your vagina so you’ll need the extra care if you’re really busy. Invest in quality body wash, I love Molton Brown. Get lightly scented hair perfumes so you smell nice but not overwhelming. BODY LOTION. BODY OIL. Clients always comment on how smooth & soft my skin is. I exfoliate my entire body regularly. African net cloths are gold. 

12. High quality lingerie is necessary. Mix and match with lower end pieces until you can grow your collection. Clients are always willing to buy lingerie so utilize them to build your business. Heels. Heels. Heels. Some clients like stockings and have fetishes (and will pay a LOT of money for it). Invest in your wardrobe.

13. Set income goals in a spreadsheet on a week by week basis. This helps your subconscious mind to get as close to that goal as possible. Keep notes on all of your clients. This helps with retention as they believe they are special to you. Retention is KEY. New clients are great and you advertise to keep your funnel full, retaining clients is amazing. You will rarely have to replace a client unless your rates increase dramatically.

14. 50-60% of what you earn should go back into your business until you reach a surplus or income goal (my first savings goal was 100K and I reached that in four months). This fast-tracks your success. You don’t have to grow slowly, you can grow exponentially. If this feels like a lot of work, IT IS. This is a business. 

15. Stay positive. Read books that inspire you. Watch YouTube videos about business. Write down your goals and know the minute you write them down, they are yours. If someone has what you want, celebrate them sincerely (you can do this privately of course, no need to DM). This increases your frequency. Jealousy, envy & hate are the lowest frequencies. If you gossip about others, talk crap on the regular, engage in hateful rhetoric you will never succeed. Its the law of the universe. You will always hit a ceiling, a snag or have some-problem in your life. Why? Because what you wish for others you create for yourself in your life and experience. 

how do I want the world to see me, and does it match how I see myself?

how do I show up for others, and how do they show up for me?

what about my life feels like love and what doesn't?

where does my time go, and where do I wish it would go?

who do I admire most, and what about them speaks to my soul?

is the way I live aligned with the life I dream of, or a I just coasting?

what qualities in others feel the most magnetic to me? Do I reflect those?

what’s inside my bag, and what does it say about me? (be honest, even the gum wrappers count.)

if I could script my perfect morning, how would it begin?

what passions have I ignored that I would like to reclaim?

what’s one small, powerful shift I could make today to move toward my dream life?

write a tender letter to the future version of yourself. What do you hope they’ve become, and what do you want them to remember about now?

As always, please feel free to share your own prompts and check out my insta for more of me! <3

I think that in order for a woman to truly succeed at hypergamy, she has to understand that there needs to be a degree of emotional detachment regarding a future with any potential partners. It’s natural to meet someone you’re attracted to and have feelings for them, but projecting romantic feelings onto someone you barely know often leads to neediness and insecure attachment. If you think you have a connection with someone, slowly nurture and strengthen it over time.

The idealized version of someone you create in your mind rarely fits reality. It’s very easy to dream of a future with someone, fill in what you don’t know about them with qualities you’d hope they have, and put the version you’ve made of them on a pedestal. This will lead to disappointment because, in order to keep the fantasy alive in your mind, the interactions you have in reality will become less natural and more focused on catering to and pleasing them as time goes on. 

When you meet a man you like, it's alright to appreciate him, but be very wary of forming an emotional attachment to someone you don’t know. There has to be a trial and vetting period. Not only do they need to learn about you and get to understand you, but you also need to determine if they fit what you want and fit into your future. You should not be rushing into relationships left and right; these won’t last, and if you’re looking to marry rich, you need to understand that it takes time and effort to find a good husband. 

• Exercising

• Connecting with God

• Dressing modestly

• Eating healthy

• Forgiving people who hurt you

• Prioritizing sleep

• Setting boundaries

• Spending time alone

• Choosing peace over drama

• Managing finances

• Practicing gratitude

• Limiting social media

• Saying “no” without guilt

• Reading books

• Keeping a tidy space

• Drinking lots of water

• Investing in skincare over makeup

• Focusing on long term goals

But Gojo saw that kid grow up🥺 After Tsumiki, Gojo is probably the closest thing Megumi has to a family…right?

I do agree that Megumi probably views Gojo primary as a Benefactor, but what about Gojo? How do you think he views Megumi?

Not this again, please. Please, this is the very last time I will entertain this discussion. I'm so tired of this.

First of all, I never said Megumi and Gojo are not emotionally connected. I just said that they are distanced, okay?

Megumi clearly said that he is going to jujutsu school and working as jujutsushi to pay their debt to Gojo and said that for him, Gojo is his benefactor. He said "onjin", meaning someone he is indebted to.

Q: What is Gojo satoru for you? A: For now, benefactor.

I don't know how it is in your place, but Asia people usually feel reluctant and awkward when we ask more out of our benefactor, which is why Gojo comments like this when Megumi asks him to train him, implying that he rarely asked.

Gojo already wrote off his debt to Zenin clan, then trained him since he was young in jujutsu, now that he grew and realized the burden of his debt, it's reasonable to think that Megumi also feeling the reluctancy and awkwardness of asking more out of his benefactor.

Now, Gojo. The reason why Gojo went out of his way to look for Megumi is this.

(literal translation of this. yes, it's harsh)

Q: Why did Gojo went to meet "Fushiguro Megumi" who he heard from Touji? A: To seek excellent human resources.

By this time, presumably Gojo started to gather young talented jujutsushi to then be taught so that he can realize his dream of "resetting the rotten jujutsu world" by means of "growing" strong allies. Megumi being the first of them. So, it's also selfish in Gojo's part too in supporting the Fushiguro siblings financially.

This is also from the fanbook. The reason why he helps even problematic kids like Yuuta and Itadori is because he doesn't really care as long they are strong. As long as they have the potential. And Gojo has implied that Megumi's cursed technique able to go on par with his.

Yes, Gojo taught him since he was young. Yes, he saw Megumi and Tsumiki grew up. But not as a parental figure, simply as a mentor and benefactor who care for their well-being. There is a difference of emotional distance between being a parent and being a teacher. I know it's difficult to see, but as someone who has some experience in this matter, there's a certain limit that a teacher shouldn't pass. That the only one who can and is allowed to reach emotional distance past that limit is parental figure. In this matter, IMHO Gojo is a proper, good teacher.

This is why I don't think Gojo ever see Megumi as his "son". And Megumi himself never sees Gojo as a parental figure.

Okay, so it seems like chapter 210 shows a little snippet of Young Gojo being around with Kid Megumi in Hana’s flashback.

However, I still on the defense that Gojo did not raise Megumi and Tsumiki. Like if anything, it seems like Gojo was having kid Megumi doing a a mission since it looks like they were just originally there to kill a cursed spirit.

Therefore, if anything it further supports that Gojo was basically using Megumi as a potential ally for his cause because he is already having Megumi doing these type of missions at such a young age.

I’m with you on the side of Gojo did not raise Megumi, anon. Gojo never calls himself a parent to Megumi, nor does he call Megumi and Tsumiki family. He is always just a teacher to both of them. He can be an affectionate teacher. He can be an attentive teacher that takes personal care with his students. However, the roles of a parent and a teacher are different, and Gojo clearly does not see himself as a caretaker to Megumi, he is there for one reason and one reason only and that is to foster Megumi’s growth as a Jujutsu Sorcerer.