you can't put a name on something so talented

Just saw a butt on tumblr. Please settle down.

AHHH

asexual activism is PART of sex positivity. education about asexuality is part of sex education. speaking openly about sex, defying repressive sexual norms, and encouraging people to be comfortable with and enjoy their "unconventional" sexual lives all needs to include the messaging that not wanting sex is fine and that saying "no" every time is not only acceptable but good if that's what you really want. asexuality is not the opponent of sex positivity, it's another arm of it.

the era-specific trans experience of being deadnamed by an automated email

my sympathy in particular to people (me) who 1) legally changed their name years ago, and 2) are STILL in the process of updating their online accounts. bc each of those fuckers has to be individually. manually. updated.

made an appointment for my flu shot at a pharmacy I haven't used in awhile. this morning I woke up to a text message starting with: "HELLO DEADNAME..." all caps and everything. my first instinct was "I am in Danger"

AHH LOVE HER

i see the year 2018 and think "oh yeah two years ago" and then i remember. the horrors

duuude i do the same thing

saw some tiktoks making fun of girls who want to wear revealing clothes in public while in a relationship and I just want to say if you love her and she loves you why do you care. "what if another guy tries to get intimate with her" just kill him? what happened to chivalry

AH

so valid

asexual pick up line: hey are you a salad? cause im only interested if you're dressed

when i was in eighth grade and i learned about asexual reproduction my dumbass thought "oh thank god, i don't have to have sex"