I knew a girl who had a massive crush on her teacher and went out of her way try and seduce him and like???? People really be out here doing reverse pedophilia or whatever.
Hmmm I donât know how to tell you this but âreverse pedophiliaâ isnât a thingâŚ.
Chances are that your friend, who absolutely should not*** be trying to seduce your teacher, is acting that way for a myriad of reasons(ie. Previous grooming, past abuse, trauma, sheer ignorance etc.) and you could either have a chat with her about this extremely inappropriate behavior and it she doesnât receive it well, have a chat with the teacher about it(I highly recommend this if she is still dead set on it). Thatâs about all you can do in the situation.
But ultimately, if anything inappropriate were to happen between your friend and the teacher, the teacher, being an adult in this situation, is 100% at fault. Because they should know better and they are trained on things like this***
Itâs actually normal for teenagers* to find adults attractive(not the other way around), itâs a normal part of growing up and puberty. Most people have had celebrity crushes when they were young. This is normal behavior unless youâre ace. Itâs also socially acceptable behavior. So no, it is not âreverse-pedophiliaâ
Whatâs not okay is an adult, knowing how underdeveloped and immature the brain and body of a teenager is, how unbalanced the power dynamics is, and how the long term effect can fuck up the teen, engaging in romantic and sexual behavior with them, regardless of this.
Your mindset is particularly shitty and very victim-blamey⌠please look at this with a more critical eye: Teenagers might be more mature than children but their brains are still forming and will be till theyâre at least 21-25. So why would you blame the person who is still growing and not the fully grown adult?
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