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Some changes look negative on the surface but you will soon realize that space is being created in your life for something new to emerge.

Without being aware of it, you take many things as being your identity: your body, your race, your beliefs, your thoughts.

you are in the habit of co-depending on people to make up for what you think you lack who tricked you into believing another person  was meant to complete you when the most they can do is complement

We could have been happy. I know that, and it is perhaps the hardest thing to know.

Our job is to love people. When it hurts. When it’s awkward. When it’s uncool and embarrassing. Our job is to stand together, to carry the burdens of one another and to meet each other in our questions.

The human mind is not a terribly logical or consistent place.

Tips for Surviving Tough Times

My OP is suddenly getting a shit-ton of reblogs and I’ve been sitting here all day thinking “you guise are all missing the best part!”

Miss someone until they come back, or until you come back, until their absence in your life becomes something to be avoided at all costs. Miss them until you don’t have to anymore, until you’re reunited in your favorite booth in your favorite restaurant ordering your favorite meal, miss them until it feels like you never left. Or miss them until you can’t anymore, until the things you miss are identified and cataloged as things and not a person, until you figure out that easy company and long talks and unblinking, all-knowing eye contact will find you again the way they found you the first time. Miss someone until you don’t.

Understanding the Road to Success

Breathe through it, write a list of desires Make a toast, make a wish, slash some tires Paint a heart repeating, beating “don’t give up, don’t give up, don’t give up.”