if youโre crying and they donโt stop itโs rape.
if youโre shaking out of fear and they donโt stop itโs rape.
if youโre making unwilling noises and they donโt stop itโs rape.
if youโre making sounds of pain and they donโt stop itโs rape.
if youโre paralyzed and silent and fail to give out any kind of response and they donโt stop itโs rape.
if you canโt say no for any reason and they take your silence or failure to fight them off as a yes, itโs rape.
if youโre showing in body language that youโre uncomfortable, scared, upset, or not in the mood, and they still persist, itโs rape.
if youโre inebriated or otherwise not fully alert and conscious due to any circumstances and they take advantage of that, itโs rape.
you donโt always have to clearly sayย โnoโ orย โstopโ, if your partner cares about not raping you, they wont overlook any sign, any clue that you donโt want to do this.
you are not responsible for their failure to care if theyโre committing a rape or not. it takes nothing away from their life not to rape another person.
