Physical: dark skinned, tall, very attractive, great style, mustache and/or beard, muscular

As kids we are programmed to talk a certain way, walk a certain way, think a certain way and learn a certain way.  By the time we are adults those ways are thrown out the window, as we have acquired our own ways of living.

Well I thought my own ways and understandings made me who I was and who I was destined to be.  I was definitely wrong about that.  A lot more living and one daughter later, I acquired totally new ways of living, existing...being.  Yet and still these ways are not enough nor fulfilling.  There's so much more life to be lived.  So many more ways and overstanding to acquire.

By old ways when asked Who I was, I would follow up with my name (noun). By definition "who" is a pronoun meaning "what or which person or people".