Introductions.
It has been strongly suggested to me by the lovely girl who showed me this site that I should describe myself and post some things and otherwise prove that I'm not some sort of malicious bot.
So, pending her review and edits, here's some basics.
My name is James (not Jimmy or Jim, please!).
Neither my icon or my banner image are photos of me or people I know; they're stock photos since I need some sort of image to show I'm not a bot (according to my tumblr-savvy contact).
I'm 50 years old, I'm twice-divorced (long stories) but I've got a lovely daughter and stepdaughter and good memories out of the marriages even if they didn't work out and I'm still friendly with the exes, for what it's worth. Some people just aren't set up to be married and I guess I'm one of them.
I try to stay in shape and take care of myself and I've been described as a "soft" Dominant by partners in the past.
And by "soft" I mean I will take care of my partners.
I cook, I clean, I do the dishes, I cuddle, I do laundry.
And, when needed, I will pin you down to the bed and fuck you until you can't think - and then keep going and make sure you're all happy and okay afterwards.
I will buy you sexy lingerie and toys and make you show off in them for me, make you use them while I watch.
I will use you - because I know it makes you happy to be used and I get off getting other people off.



















