lunarly created loser

the lion does not concern himself with what his art looks like when the canvas is flipped

reading reviews and tags of backrooms (2026) makes me so fucking angry omfg. did the message go over everyone’s head????? cycles of abuse????? the immorality of the psychiatric and medical systems???? the horrors of being a woman in patriarchal society???? the horrors of being an abuse victim trying to navigate the world?????? the consequences of trying to ‘fix people’, especially men as a woman, and especially abusers as a survivor????? how trying to fix the abusive system you live under using the tools of that same system doesn’t work??????? how destructive enabling abusive behaviour, even as part of healing to ‘fix’ an abuser, can be????? is anyone listening or do you only care about the random white man!???!?!!!?????

hot take: if carl was a white man the main ship in the phm fandom would be grace x carl.

like. i appreciate the friendship they have in the movie genuinely. and im glad people do too… but..,, people would be making them SO gay if carl was white. i would see grace x carl fanart everywhere i go. there would be swarms of ship fics on ao3 about them.. if carl was some generic white man in a suit people would be thirsting over him like they thirst over grace. the aroace grace headcanon might even be less popular (no tea no shade i love this hc). they would think their dynamic has some sort of underlying tension. but NO. this is NOT our reality because he’s a black man .