Cruel Thursdays

i feel physically ill.

Daniel Kaluuya in Get Out (2017)

Lupita Nyong'o in Us (2019)

Butch is a Noun by S. Bear Bergman

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"ON FEMMES AND SEX

1. Butch and Femme are not synonymous with Top and Bottom. There are Femme Tops, Butch Bottoms, and switches on both sides of the aisle. Many femmes enjoy taking charge in the bedroom or shower, or sofa, or cheap motel, or alleyway, or romantic bluff, back porch, et cetera, from time to time or on a regular basis. There's nothing wrong with that, just as there's nothing wrong with it if she doesn't want to be on top. A willingness to be flexible about certain butch/femme sexual assumptions will often go a long way toward making a femme happy in bed. Besides, no matter what you get up to there's no need to worry about your reputation. A femme will never tell."