I'm sorry this isn't a fandom ask, but as someone with a few years more life experience than me, do you have any advice on getting by in your early twenties, because right now it's just like, a void of uncertainty and terrible job and no social life and the like, and nobody irl knows what advice to give me and I'm not really sure what to do or where to go in life (college was stressful, but it at least gave me structure :/ But can't really afford more education, and student loans are terrifying)
PhewâŚ.man oh man, do I know that feeling. My early twenties were terrifying, and for the same reasons.Â
College, however demanding, always has a clear path to take with clear goals and expectations: to earn this major, you must take these classes. To pass these classes, you must complete these tasks, etc, etc, etc.
Then you graduate and it seems like thereâs no clear path in any direction. You have to make your own path and that is so scary and confusing. What are you even supposed to do? What if you mess up? What if you end up in a job you hate or canât do? What if thereâs no jobs you can do and you canât earn the money to survive?Â
You say youâre in a terrible job now, maybe youâre worried that youâll always be stuck in it, or that even if you end up somewhere else itâll be just as bad as or worse than your current work situation.
I canât give you specific career or life advice not knowing your circumstances, but I can tell you a few things I learned:
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