a burst of fruit flavor

WHY HAVE YOU LEFT US HANGING IN THE INTERNET ETHER WITHOUT ANYTHING FABULOUS

hi sweetness...just sending you some love. miss you online, but know you have tons to do! hopefully we'll get a nice dose of you soon.xovoguefemme

I must say, you are quite fabulous indeed.

Thanks for your comment! You make a great point. Feminists really need male voices; it sucks but I've lost count of how many times I was dismissed (even by other women) as being "uppity" until a man piped up, then people stopped and listened. I think it's because people realize the man has nothing to personally gain from feminism and so that lends it some credence in their minds? Or maybe it's simple sexism, in that people just consider men more authoritative?But, man, that contingent of young feminists on Tumblr are harsh. They will label you and when you try to defend yourself by trying to explain who you really are they accuse you of making excuses and seriously invalidate your life experience. Really, over and over and over again, it just seems like a group of people who are trying to demarcate themselves into an exclusive group; it happens with all kinds of people struggling to establish their identity. It's why people join gangs or churches, even.