Quinn

Gareth x Chrissy

you're allowed to be anxious in your dr btw

This applies to your S/O as well. They are allowed to be human. They are allowed to be angry and sad and messy and annoying. Your S/O isn't perfect. No one is perfect, no matter how much scripting you do. Just remember that your S/O is human too. They are allowed to have dreams and goals outside of you. They are allowed to need time alone. Just because your S/O wants to do things in life just for them doesn't mean they don't love you. Your S/O can still love you and be their own person. Your S/O is allowed to have a life outside of you, just like you have a life outside of them. They aren't bullet points on a page, they're living, breathing people with complex feelings and pasts. They might be traumatized, they might have things that they can't shake. They might need therapy, or they might need rehab. They might need you to hold them without judgment or fight for them without fear. You might think you're making their lives better because of the things you scripted, but they don't know that. This life is the only life they've ever known.

Hey so while more experienced shifters may be able to give you guidance and help in your journey, don't just take everything they say as gospel.

I lost a bet to @thedudewithnoeyebrows and I have to keep my word. So…

I saw a post going around a while ago (including from a non-US moot) about getting comfortable lying to law enforcement

Since lying to the FBI is such a serious crime, the feds will sometimes ask questions that they already know the answers to, just to see if you'll lie to them. That way, even if the initial charges turn out to be bullshit, they still got you on obstructing a federal investigation or whatever -- even if they immediately knew it was a lie and therefore were not obstructed in the slightest.

Once I "made" a custom emoji for my mum by crudely drawing a hijab on it and now whenever she wants me to buy a coffee for her I get a text like this