This might just be me, but something feels really off about season five. The characters seem to be watered down versions of themselves.
I understand that it's the final season, and of course the show runners want to show how the characters have grown, but they just don't feel like the characters I used to know. I used to be so invested in Xo and Ro's storylines in particular, but I'm not feeling that passion this season. I don't know if it's just a perception thing, but it doesn't feel like the side characters are getting as much attention as before.
I would have been happy if they had ended the show with season four. I was happy with season four. I'm not enjoying season five in the same way I've enjoyed the other seasons. And while I don't ship Japhael myself, I was completely on board with where their relationship was in season four. I liked that Jane was able to properly grieve the death of her husband, whom she loved, and she was able to find love again and move on. Rafael was nothing but supportive to her and loved her completely without putting pressure on her. I loved season four Rafael, but season five seems to have undone that. While they were apart, he was completely childish (I mean, avoiding Jane? How old is he again?)
On a small tangent, give the guy some actual friends. Him only having Petra and Jane is kinda sad after all that growing he did after Michael died. Zen Rafael could have easily made some genuine friends.
I don't think they should have brought Michael back. They should have used a different obstacle to Jane and Rafael's relationship, because it completely changed how I viewed it. I saw it as love before. And despite what Jane says about it, I can only view it as guilt now. If she knew that she loved Rafael and wanted to be with him, she shouldn't have gone to Montana with Michael. She should have let him go. But she didn't. Because she still loves Michael. And even then, I could accept that she had moved on with her life and her feelings for him weren't the same if the whole trip hadn"t been a positive, fun thing for her.
I could also accept if they had handled her thoughts differently. Instead of Rafael interrupting her and Michael, it could have been done in such a way as it had been Rafael she was imagining after all. There could have been a cut and have Raf where Michael was before when they cut back. As it stands, it just looks like Jane is hesitating because Rafael is Mateo's biological father and that he won't have easy access to his son, rather than her being in love with him.
The whole "waiting for you to choose Michael is painful" thing doesn't help me on the love over guilt front. Michael is able to live his life even if she isn't in it. Michael is willing to walk away from Jane if it means that she will be happy. Rafael fell apart when it looked like Jane was going to leave him. Again, it doesn't help at all that Rafael has no friends other than Petra. Again, I could buy Jane loving Rafael over Michael if Raf had a good support system, like Michael does. But the fact that he doesn't, that he cannot cope without Jane, doesn't sit right with me. It feels more like an obligation to choose him, because his suffering is incredibly self destructive.
I don't like what they did with the love triangle this season. I don't like what they did to Michael. And I do find it telling that they had to literally change who Michael was by merging him with the Jason character for Jane not to choose him. I do believe that if he was the same Michael as before that she would have chosen to stay with him, because they compliment each other so well. They knew each other so well, and they would have small romantic gestures for each other that Jason/Michael now craps all over.
And a very definite "this is my perception and how I relate to particular lines" thing is Petra with J.R. I love the relationship they have. It's good for Petra, and the kind of love that makes you want to grow and be a better person is definitely the ideal. But the whole "I've never felt this way with anyone else" line feels a lot like an invalidation of the love Petra had for Rafael. This is where the personal perception comes in. I hear a line like that and it makes me think that the character hasn't experienced/ been in love before. And I can't just wipe away four seasons of Petra being in love with Rafael, as unhealthy as they were for each other. They had plenty of opportunities to make it clear that what Petra felt for Raf wasnt love, but they did the opposite. They reaffirmed her romantic feelings for Rafael. It just doesn't sit well with me.
Basically TL;DR. Michael was better off staying dead instead of being used as an obstacle for Jafael, because it really undermined the relationship in my eyes.
They can't wipe away four seasons of Petra loving Rafael with that one line.