I Have My Dream

OK so I normally just post photos and reblogs of stuff that turns me on, but I want to get serious for a moment. This post is directed at the guys out there, but ladies take a second to read please and know that we’re not all assholes here.

First things first, to the women out there who have blogs that they share with us and who also choose to share incredibly intimate stuff, be it photos, desires, or anything personal, thank you for being brave enough to do that and for allowing us to partake in your beauty. Secondly, I know that the very act of doing that is intimidating as fuck, and that I am granted the gift of enjoyment is not lost; my gratitude is immense for you.

Now, this being said, guys…think about this for a second. We are all so insanely lucky that these women allow us into their inner sanctums and give us a glimpse of their physical, and sometimes mental and emotional beauty. They choose to bare themselves to literally the world knowing how vicious the internet can be.

Generally speaking, these women also have a few simple requests which I’ve seen and heard of being completely ignored all too often. The first R stands for Read. When you happen upon a blog of any woman, take a moment and read the header. See what simple requests the lady has. Typically they’re asking for us to refrain from sending dick pics (because be real, dicks are dicks and if you’ve seen one, well, you get the picture). They often ask us not to sext them, because honestly if you see these women, they don’t need some Joe Blow hiding behind a keyboard to get them off (which likely wouldn’t happen anyway…but more on that later) because they’re gorgeous and have a man or woman to do that already. Finally they’re asking for us to respect them and enjoy their corner of the internet peacefully.

Which leads me to the second R, Respect. Ms. Franklin said it best in the 60s, r-e-s-p-e-c-t find out what it means to me! Generally this is accomplished easily by, you guessed it, reading her requests! Also, if you do get bold enough to message them, be kind! A simple “Hi, your blog is great and you’re beautiful.” gets a lot more likely chance if being replied to than “Hey slut, nice tits…now drain my balls on them”. Gross.

Now there’s a chance, slimmer than a snowball’s in hell, but still a chance that they may not give a shit and respond (more likely a guy posing as a woman behind that blog and catfishing you fools), but most of the time the only response that kind of statement will garner is a block and reported abuse. In the real world, if you said that to a woman at a bar, she’d sterilize you on the spot with the aid of likely every other woman in earshot, so why would it be OK to say it online? Don’t let your anonymity breed misogyny. Be better than that! Kindness begets kindness and in this world currently, we could all use more kindness, am I right?!

Finally the third R stands for reciprocity. This does not mean that you should expect it, but that it’s highly unlikely and shouldn’t be expected! Just because a woman is posting things of an adult nature, is referring to herself in terms like naughty, cock sucker, dirty princess, etc. does not mean that she is this in any way, shape, or form for you! Curb your expectations to nil, and be glad you get to experience any of this anyway. Maybe you’ll actually get to know some of these wonderful, beautiful, amazing, and incredibly brave ladies on here, maybe you won’t, but I guarantee if you treat them with disrespect or like they’re your own personal sex toys, you have no fucking clue how to talk to them and shouldn’t be surprised or upset when they rightfully choose to ignore and likely block your ass.

These beautiful ladies are kind enough to share their bodies and sometimes their souls with us and we should be respectful of them.

Some of these women, although beautiful and sexy, do have self confidence issues and I have seen far too many hurt by some of the things that some guys say. Some have been forced to leave Tumblr.

We don’t want that to happen.

We want them to stay and continue to share their beauty with us.

Happy New Year. Let’s make it the year of coming out!! Mothers and sons repost this with your first names and how long together. Letting people know is a freeing feeling. I will start