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So lately the “baby” talk has been coming up. Now to catch some of you up I already have 3 kids from a previous marriage. Ages 7,3,and 2. I would love to expand a family with my fiancée but at the same time I just want to breath. Now he has no kids and would like at least one of his own. So does this make me selfish for not wanting to jump into having a baby right now? Does this make me a bad partner? Besides after what I had to go through and still going through with my kids father I’ve  reached a point where I'm terrified for this to happen again. So what should I do? He is set on a baby.. I need some serious advise....... HELP