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A little spare time on a beautiful sunny summer day, so I figured I’d make use of my time and give my own guide on how to achieve a literally mind-numbing orgasm, since I find many of the “qualified” online medical guides to be nothing but simple advertisements for their toys, devices, etc.

1) Your prostate is a gland that has some involvement in storing semen. The reason why many people decide to practice edging or locking up in chastity is to accumulate a sizable amount of cum within the prostate. There are two reasons why this would be beneficial; the first reason is critical, an individual cannot, or will have a much more difficult time achieving a prostate orgasm because of the lack or shortage of semen in the prostate gland; simple stimulation of a “dry” or empty gland simply results in stimulation, climaxing however is much more difficult because there is nothing to release. Secondly, who doesn’t love the feeling of unloading a hot sticky mess that you’ve saved up for days or weeks?(; So try and refrain from masturbating or ejaculating for a few days before your sissygasm!

2) It is very crucial that you clean up and prepare ahead of time (preferably an hour ahead of time at the very minimum) before playing around with the prostate. I strongly recommend douching; the method in which I use to clean up is shower first, douche and hold in the water within my anus, and release any excess bowels and water on the toilet. Hop in the shower, douche again if you feel the need to, rinse and repeat until you feel your bowels are empty and no more feces appear in the released douching water. It’s also nice to wash your entire body with soap, remember, the preparation can be as exciting as the actual playing around itself, so enjoy pampering yourself. I find myself getting turned on removing any body hairs and running my hands across my smooth legs and butt, you should be able to as well!

3) (Optional) I like to smoke weed after cleaning up and prepping but before I actually play with my prostate. Now some of you may not agree with using marijuana, and that’s perfectly fine because it’s not necessary. I only smoke to help relax my muscles and intensify the stimulation I receive. If you do smoke weed, however, crank on some seductive music (or whatever you desire), relax (you’ll need to anyways since your anus needs a minor break from douching) for a bit, maybe even pick out whatever sexy clothes or lingerie you’re going to wear ;)

4) I cannot emphasize this enough, BE GENTLE, GO SLOW, AND USE A GENEROUS AMOUNT OF LUBE. It’s not a rush to achieve the orgasm as fast as possible, which is why a sissygasm would be a bad idea if you’re distracted or in a rush, so close the windows, put your phone on silent, and make sure no one will distract you; the purpose of a sissygasm is to relish and savor every second of the amazing stimulation.

5) Try and find comfortable positions and toys to use; I personally enjoy laying on my side as it is the position that relaxes my anal muscles. Once you get warmed up with a little teasing, you can move onto more stimulation positions such as cowgirl riding or even prop your dildo against the wall and ride it standing up, it’s all personal preferences. When it comes down to what toys to use, I strongly recommend something of smaller width and insertable length if you are a beginner (fingers aren’t a bad choice, just make sure they’re clipped and clean), there are various toys designed specifically for the prostate and come with a vibrating function that can help you achieve sissygasms much faster.

6) This is probably the most important emphasis of all, if your first or second time playing with your prostate did not result in a sissygasm, don’t give up! It took me until my 10th try (or even more than that) until I finally learned to relax, focus all my thought on my prostate (try doing Kegel exercises, but gentle ones), and let my hand and dildo do all the work.