No matter what, you never deserve abuse.
You never deserve abuse because youâre too needy or clingy
You never deserve abuse because you âlet it happenâ or âdidnât fight backâ or âdidnât stand up for yourselfâ
You never deserve abuse because you âlet it get this farâ or you âstayed this longâ
You never deserve abuse because your abuser is your mother or father, sister or brother, other family member, your boyfriend, girlfriend, fiancĂŠe, husband, or wife
You never deserve abuse because you have a particular mental or physical illness
You never deserve abuse because youâre âtoo emotionalâ
You never deserve abuse because you were âasking for itâ
You never deserve abuse even though youâve made mistakes, or said something wrong, or havenât understood something, or canât remember something
You never deserve abuse for being âtoo muchâ or ânot good enoughâ
You never deserve abuse for having off days or being vulnerable sometimes
You never deserve abuse for asking for help
You never deserve abuse, no matter how many times and how many ways your abuser justifies it or makes excuses for it.