i made some gender neutral words for things that already exist sort of
okay, so theres some overlap or mixing between things like boyish men and tomboy women, and girly women and femboy men. and you could probably just say a boyish or girly person, but that also might have ties to masculinity or femininity, respectively. and you might consider yourself only feminine and boyish, or only masculine and girly, or only androgynous or neutral and one of them, or only another presentation and one of them
and if you would consider yourself girly or boyish but you dont fit into that formed aesthetic, then you might just call yourself those things. but theres not really a word i could find for people who do fit into those aesthetics but dont necessarily describe themselves with the ties to genders themselves.
so this is what im making here. ive felt and looked at a lot of textures in my life, so i would describe "girly" as being something like a lace square and "boyish" as perhaps a felt square. why a square? i dont know, it just feels that way!
