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Do not drop your phone into the bucket of tile adhesive. This step is actually completely unnecessary and massively complicates the tiling process.

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i read an anecdote ages and ages ago from a gay person who grew up with gay parents, and struggled to find any kind of belonging in the gay community because everyone else there was bonding over having homophobic parents. everyone else was defining themselves by their suffering and oppression rather than by their sexuality, leaving this gay person to feel like they weren't really gay because they didn't have the right experiences. they wondered whether more gay people would feel this way as more children grew up with gay parents, if the gay community would leave them behind for not having suffered enough. i think about that anecdote a lot.

a lot of the current rhetoric around gender reminds me of that anecdote. a lot of people are willing to go "transgender people are oppressed for their gender presentation, therefore if you're not oppressed for your gender presentation, you're not trans." but i don't think we should be defining ourselves by our suffering and oppression. what will we do, in a few years, in a few decades, as there start to be, say, adults who were supported in their transition as children? what will we do when a stereotypical trans person can genuinely say they didn't suffer hardship for being trans?

i'm afraid i know the answer. i'm afraid that people are going to close ranks as they've already started closing ranks against intersex people, against nonbinary people, against double binary people, against closeted people. as some people have started closing ranks against people who transitioned in the opposite direction from them. as many people have closed ranks against people with edge case gender experiences. "i don't consider you to be oppressed, therefore you are not welcome to share in this community you might otherwise belong in."

i wish people would understand that we shouldn't do this. i wish people would understand that we benefit from a broader, more inclusive community more than we benefit from whatever purity testing oppression olympics it is that i keep running into.

strictlyquadrilateral

#it seems like you might be vaguing about a specific argument or discourse so I want to state clearly that I'm not involved with that#BUT. I do want to say. You say in a few years to decades#There have actually been trans kids who were supported in their transition for a while now#my elementary school had at least three#one of whom was close friends with my little sister so I saw first hand that she really was being treated like any other little girl#up to and including the big tweenage friend group breakup rip#wherever she is she's 23 now#and I transitioned later but I was never really closeted just took a long time to figure shit out#everyone was supportive I haven't had to fight for jack shit#literally no one has been actually transphobic to my face#(my ex's mom was snide behind my back but that sucked for my ex more than for me)#the future is now and i feel like more people should know that (via @savouryduck)

this is good information! i would guess that the statistic vary wildly from community to community; i'm not personally aware of any trans adult in my circles who was supported in their transition from a young age, but i don't actually know all that many people in the grand scheme of things. i do feel like this also supports my ultimate point about who gets to be included; if we already have stereotypically trans adults who've experienced very little friction about their identity, then we're very late to grappling with the idea of transgender identity that isn't tied to suffering.

#if you can only define yourself by your oppression #you'll never give yourself permission to Be Happy #their hate says more about them than it does about me #I don't respect a bigot's opinion enough to let it shape me

northshorewave

French on loanwords: "If you say 'Youtuber' instead of créateur de courtes vidéos destinées à être visionnées en ligne, Napoleon Bonaparte will come back to life and kill you."

Japanese on loanwords: "Just say yūtuuba or some shit. It don't matter. None of this matters."

#common fr*nch L

pankendev

sooooooo i'm being put on blast for *checks notes* killing a family of 4 with my big knife?…

#has cancel culture gone too far

genderkoolaid

i really love having contamination ocd at the same time as the food safety precautions have been systemically dismantled in my country it's really cool and good for my already stellar health

chrysaorthegolden

I feel you. Last week coincided with a flare up of my paranoia, and I threw out like half my fridge about it.

So that's. Great.

#is “flare up” the right phrase here? idk it's a recurring issue that is mostly handled but occasionally comes back #with a vengeance #so anyway now I'm hungry because my fridge is empty #op i hope this response doesn't trigger or make you feel bad I'd hate that

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mescalitoart

Thanks Gale

heavenslittlemachine-deactivate

i have been noticing recently that people younger than me are too sensitive, while people older than me are not sensitive enough. which, if i'm correct, should be taken as a sign that the total reality penetration vortex is operating as intended -- within as few as five or six generations we may very well be producing babies who can directly perceive the wound at the heart of the world

chrysaorthegolden

maniakminis

SQUIGS SQUIGS SQUIGS!!!

I like squigs <3

goofy-goblins

I love the mix of classic and modern squigs.

maniakminis

It's whatever I had in my collection to get a herd of 20! Same for the rest of my Orcs and Goblins army, it's a mix of old and new models with a bunch of kitbashes and repair jobs.

tiktoks-i-enjoyed

#big if true

bodhrancomedy

Look, it’s a weird hill to die on, especially when I don’t really explain, but children deserve to experience fear, disgust, and discomfort in safe scenarios where they can process those sensations.

Media for children used to be scary and that’s important.

the-davest-of-uncles

“Since it is so likely that (children) will meet cruel enemies, let them at least have heard of brave knights and heroic courage. Otherwise you are making their destiny not brighter but darker.” ― C.S. Lewis

grace-in-the-wilderness

"Fairy tales do not tell children the dragons exist. Children already know that dragons exist. Fairy tales tell children the dragons can be killed."

-- G. K. Chesterton

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may12324

Plate, chainmail, swords, and straps ⚔️

#a little bit of horny posting. as a treat

moldavite

some intimacy and access to a skeleton army would go like crazy right now

a-silly-poll-side-blog-yay

your fav flower {if multiple then the first one you thought of} is your new name how is it going

good

bad

great

awful

not for my gender

results

Remaining time: 1 day 18 hours

#i have no favorite so idk #but I'm saying awful regardless #certified flower hater tm

threedollarsdotcom

you can kill twinks eaesily with fire damage

#otoh hand bears are resistant to all damage except psychic #and wolves have advantage on attack rolls in gangbangs #more research required into the statistics of butches and femmes

jauntylittlefrillyboy

I will always take the cat's side. "she's drooling on me" you're so lucky "he always wants to be petted" then pet him "he's mad I won't let him on my desk" make room on your desk for him. I am your cat's defense lawyer and the cat is always innocent on the grounds of them being A Little Kitty Cat.

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pixiecaps

like and rb to cause another abortion

#with hard work we can get those numbers up #50% murderbortion rate by 2029

dragnoodles-noodles

The Nonary Games ⌚

Sigma and Phi are my favorite duo yet I haven't drawn them together until now lol

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