this blog is my emotional dumping ground

>be a REDDIT MOD >see a womans post thats criticizing men >tell her "we're not serving these today" >silence womans complaints

"trans" is a descriptor, a modifier, like "tall" or "fat". a woman who is trans. saying "transwoman" is othering, it implies she is different than a woman, not a woman but a "transwoman".

for TRANS PROM 2026!!! which is put on by @zaigg

not pictured is my gaggle of imps and ghouls that carry my chair for me.

because everyone told me to, i made this text post into a comic.

got the idea for this one from seeing, for like the billionth time, "can trans women be lesbians". and yes, im sure most of the time i see this being asked its a recently out trans woman asking this to find comfort and validation.

but thats not the only type of person asking that exact question, either.

"can women be lesbians?" is really what these kind of questions sound like, its really what's being asked.

if you're a trans woman seeking validation and asking that sort of question, or if you're not and you're just seeking answers because you're cis and uneducated, remember this. trans women are just women who happen to be trans. reframe your question by dropping the word "trans" and then answer it yourself.