Hey there, I'm Cheshire. How does one do a description? The basics seem to be a good start. I live in the Land Down Under. She/Her and 21+. I'm a Fanfic Writer, and while some of my stuff is pretty tame so far, I will put a "Minors Do Not Interact" label for most of my work will likely be for 18+ readers. Lastly I'm a tea and cake lover. And I'm pretty sure that's it. This Lounge is where I reblog and post stuff. Blogs for my main stuff is on the pinned post below. Chow!
"Welcome To Cheshire's Lounge" - Introduction and MasterList Post
Hi there friends! Cheshire here, and here's a bit about this blog, as well as my other blogs.
On this blog, I mostly reblog anything that catches my eye and where I post most of my tag games and posts related to my stories. This blog is also where most details on my Original Works Trilogy An Old Ballad Of Chance And Ember Hearts (including its Original Work predecessor, Wings And Horns) and Fallout series A Radioactive Calamity Of Love, Bombs & Gore can be found.
@the-untitledverse-blog is where I post fics and details related to my The UnTitledverse series. The series is comprised of four sagas; The Perfect Storm, The Omniscient Rule, The UnTitled Ventures and The Ender sagas, focusing on the development of a child by the name of Joaquin Cobalt, who grows and matures throughout the sagas, alongside friends and family against enemies and threats on a multiversal scale.
@the-silver-chronicles is where I post fics and details related to my The Silver Chronicles series. The series is smaller than that of The UnTitledverse, however it is one with several alternate scenarios and AUs, most of which for Far Cry 5. This series doesn't follow a sole character, rather being a kind of anthology, connected but can still be solo, though personally I believe Junior Deputy Silva Omar should hold the title of main character, as she is the most significant and reoccurring character in The Silver Chronicles, especially for the FC5 stories.
@life-despair-and-monsters-blog is where I post fics and details related to my Life, Despair & Monsters series. Like The UnTitledverse, this series focuses on the multiverse. Unlike it's predecessor, Life, Despair & Monsters focuses on the alternate dimensions, the Old Kin and magical aspects surrounding the Multiverse, as well as its fundamental foundations. This series follows three groups of characters; Haoyu Anabuki's rebellious group which act as the protagonist faction, Sir Enigma Malvolio's Ruins of the Midnight Rise scientific progress-obsessed institution which acts as the main antagonist faction, with Aggravor's Chapter of the Occult which is a group of warlocks conserving and preserving all kinds of magic and plotting to return the Old Kin back to power whom act as a rival against Malvolio's faction.
@mycharacterlistandwipdump is where I dump my story related details such as list of OCs, plots and WIPs.
I can be found on AO3 here.
Below the cut are the fandoms these series will include and a number of links which can take you to several masterposts. Enjoy!
The UnTitledverse includes fandoms such as Jurassic World, Five Nights At Freddy's, Transformers Prime, The Walking Dead Game, IT (2017), Stranger Things, Gravity Falls, DOOM (2016), SCP Foundation, Detroit: Become Human, Hellaverse, Pet Sematary (2019), Red Dead Redemption, Yo-Kai Watch, Subnautica, Final Space, Life Is Strange, Star Wars, The Last Of Us, Classroom Of The Elite, Hitman: Absolution, Inside Job, Rapunzel's Tangled Adventure, The Hateful Eight, Resident Evil, The Masquerade, The Bone Season, Mermaids of Eriana Kwai, The Priory Of The Orange Tree, The Locked Tomb and Fear And Hunger.
The Silver Chronicles includes fandoms such as Far Cry, Call Of Duty: Modern Warfare, We Happy Few, Welcome To The Game, Six Of Crows, The Bone Season, Mermaids of Eriana Kwai, The Priory Of The Orange Tree, The Locked Tomb, Rapunzel's Tangled Adventure, Bloodborne and Elden Ring.
Life, Despair & Monsters includes fandoms such as Love Death + Robots, Doki Doki Literature Club, Miraculous: Tales of Ladybug & Chat Noir, Arcane: League of Legends, Cyberpunk 2077, Guenevere, I Am Not Okay With This, House Of The Dragon, Wednesday, Poppy Playtime, The Invitation, Choo Choo Charles, God Of War, Twilight of the Gods, The Legend of Vox Machina and Castlevania.
A Radioactive Calamity Of Love, Bombs & Gore solely set in Fallout (from the first ever game to Fallout 76... do note that I do not consider the 2024 show to be canon to the games nor to the events of this series in particular).
However, there are a few fandoms that I may do some unconnected (from my main fics anyway) fanfics on plus some other original works.
Lastly are the links to any MasterPosts and information I have [THIS WILL BE UPDATED (PROBABLY)]:
MasterPost to my "Boa Lurking In The Bliss" (my Silva Omar x Faith Seed ship from my FC5 works in my The Silver Chronicles series) works in the Year of the OTP 2025 (YOTP 2025) fandom event
Masterpost of Fallout OC Protagonists
Masterpost of casted Fallout characters in my The Schmuck Squad's JJK Abridged react fic
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My name is Bilal. I am a 35-year-old father of four children 👨👧👦 from Gaza. I lived a simple life with my family. I worked hard every day to provide my children with a decent life and a better future.
But the war took everything from us… 💔
In a sudden bombing, my home was destroyed, and the place that once brought my family together became nothing but ruins. I lost several members of my family, and I, my wife, and my daughter were injured, leaving us with deep physical and emotional suffering.
After losing my home, my job, and my only source of income, I became unable to work because of my injuries. My responsibilities became greater than my ability to provide. Today, I live with my children in a small, worn-out tent ⛺ that does not protect us from the heat of the sun ☀️, the cold of winter ❄️, insects 🐜, or rats 🐭 that have become part of our daily struggle.
Even the little food we manage to get 🍞 does not remain safe for us, as the rats eat it, and my children cannot eat it afterward. We are living in extremely difficult conditions, trying only to survive through fear and hardship 💔.
The tent where we live is located near the yellow line, and we have nowhere else to go or a safe place to shelter. It breaks my heart to see my children suffering while I cannot provide what they need 😢.
I ask kind-hearted people ❤️ to stand with me and help us provide medical treatment for my wife and daughter 🏥, secure the basic needs for my children, and help us overcome these unbearable circumstances after losing everything.
Because of the war in Gaza, I lost everything — my home 🏚️ and my work in law, as I am a law graduate ⚖️. My wife and my daughter Malak suff
Please donate whatever you can to help us and stand by us during this difficult time 🙏. Your support can give my family new hope and help my children have a safer and more dignified life 🤍.
Please share our story with anyone who may be able to help 🤲.
Thank you to everyone who extends a helping hand and feels our pain ❤️.
Firstly, their campaign appears as #479 on this list created by @/gazavetters
They are also vetted by association
Summary + Proof
Malak is the cousin of Fadi (@/fadi-soltangaza and other accounts with similar names), who is also vetted
Fadi's campaign is #466 on the same list by @/gazavetters
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Before I knew they were vetted, I was checking the pictures used on a post on this account using Google Image Search.
A couple of the pictures belonged to Fadi, and I was concerned that this account was stealing photos and claiming them as their own.
I brought this up to Malak, without mentioning Fadi, only saying that he was using someone else's pictures and that I won't be sharing their posts.
Malak then informed me that he was related to Fadi, and so I reached out to one of Fadi's accounts (@/fadi-soltangaza) to confirm
Below is my message to Fadi
(I am the blue, Fadi is the grey)
Update - 01/07/2026
Just updating to say that Malak is not the cousin, Bilal is the cousin.
That was my mistake, Malak is the child of Bilal
Also I had messages from Fadi about his cousin, where he linked Bilal's campaign
(I am not a vetter, I am just passing on the information that I have found)
ppl on tumblr will claim theyre fans of a piece of media when theyre actually fans of a story & characters they made up in their mind very loosely based on said media
Do you want me to get dressed/take the collar off/put the crop away?
Do you want to talk about it?
I’m here
You’re not a bad person
Top drop/dom drop usually comes from shock, guilt or insecurity about the way you have just treated someone whose well-being you care about very much. Like sub drop, it is usually accompanied by a fall in endorphins and general energy levels. Especially for aces (who I find have a greater need to be in the right mindset/’zone’ for play and intimacy), a ‘snap’ moment where you break out of play mode can throw you emotionally, and the end of play causes a similar reassessment or double-take at what happened during the scene.
Dominants in drop require the same kind of care as subs, but a different kind of reassurance.
more people need to know about this and talk about it because, yes subs need care, but so do our Doms - they deserve just as much care and attention as us subs
There are many people who don’t share this sentiment, but I have an appreciation for when a fanfic is so separated from canon that it could’ve easily been its own original novel, and yet the author was only ever going to put that much energy into it if their favourite characters got to be there
I think there’s a difference between “the author stripped the media of everything it had to replace it with something easy” and “the author thought up a concept they really really like and are bestowing it upon the character like a medal”
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I am raising funds for Yesmin, a 27 year old mother from Gaza and a victim of the ongoing genocide. Here are her own words:
Vetted by association I’m ayoosha-stuff friends
Hello friends, I am Yasmin from northern Gaza Strip. I am 27 years old, a mother of two children, Sila and Youssef, and I have been married for more than 7 years.
I was studying Journalism and Media at the University College, and I had both a home and a job. But because of the war, I lost my home, my work, and everything I owned.
My family’s house was also destroyed, and now we have nothing left except a worn-out tent whose torn walls cannot protect us from the heat of summer or the cold of winter.
My husband is injured. He was involved in a traffic accident while trying to get aid, and he is now disabled and unable to work.
My children have suffered from malnutrition due to the lack of food and proper nutrition.
That is why I am only asking for your help and support. I am here trying to save what is left of my children’s lives. They are between life and death.
Please, try to support us and donate whatever you can.
They are vetted by association, as shown in this post by @/c-u-c-koo-4-40k
Summary
Yasmin is the friend of Ayoosh, who is vetted
Ayoosh's old GFM was promoted by @/gaza-evacuation-funds
It was also #457 on the list by @/gaza-evacuation-funds
Was also vetted by association here
And the current Chuffed was vetted by @/el-shab-hussein
(I am not a vetter, I am just passing on the information I have found)
Hello, I'm Ahmed, 23 years old. I was studying computer science at the Islamic University in Gaza before the war. I aspired to build a brigh
Hello friends, it's me, Ahmed again. I need your help. I almost lost my life last time while looking for work because the place was directly bombed. I'm a university student about to graduate. I lost everything in the war, and I support myself, my younger brother, and my family. I tried to find work, but to no avail. I'm looking for a scholarship to continue my studies. We've been deprived of all our rights. Please don't deprive me of my most basic rights: the right to education, to live, and to eat healthy, good food. I'm searching for a way to support myself. You may not be able to provide financial support, but you can share this. Let's not be a cause of destruction. Please try to support us in any way you can.
My tent is dilapidated and tattered, unfit for human habitation, and extremely hot. I need your help and support.
vetted by association (archival blog here) @ahmedalresh (old chuffed)
Donation incentives
in attatched link, I am not sure if those connected to the list by el-shab-hussein, nabulsi and MohAyesh, apply to her brother but at least applies to Ayoosh's campaign
His sister Ayoosh'🔗GFM is vetted and promoted by @/gaza-evacuation-funds, #457on verified fundraiser list by el-shab-hussein, nabulsi and MohAyesh. Also vetted by association
💬 4 🔁 115 ❤️ 42 · Archival link: Donation incentives for the big two lists and mentions of others · @/gazavetters vetted list
Vetted list
its just so obviously different when someone is engaging in a convo about a female character because it's the polite thing to do and not because they have any investment in it. and normally that would be fine except this is something you have to deal with literally everywhere you go, no matter who the other people you're conversing with are. and you can feel the switch in interest so potently when women are the focus of the conversation versus men.
and again it's not really any one person's fault. but it's just so lonely sometimes ahahh
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Music for Raphael & Ijichi, The UnTitledverse & The Silver Chronicles, as well as an OC Meme Template for A Radioactive Calamity of Love, Bombs & Gore. Listen and view below the cut:
Raphael and Ijichi's stories are essentially revenge stories, with Raphael having lost his home and family and everyone he's ever known to the invasive and downright genocidal efforts of the Arachnoids (lead by Arraknis) to render all worlds capable of supporting human life uninhabitable and steal all their natural minerals to continue building more of their Exterminators to continue these efforts, while Ijichi has suffered a personal loss of his family (wife and children, both born and unborn) to the unstable machinations of Yahar'ghul, and his human body to Saint Matilda and the Engineer under his archbishop's, Rouske, orders (an act of punishment for rebelling against him), leaving Ijichi in only a (below average) human-sized puppet. Raphael seeks to destroy the Arachnoids and their armadas, while Ijichi wants to bring down Rouske and Yahar'ghul, and both are willing to do whatever it takes, even if it gets the other killed, or themselves in the process.
"This is how I show my love
I made it in my mind because
Blame it on my ADD, baby
This is how an angel dies
I blame it on my own sick pride
Blame it on my ADD, baby
Sail, sail
Sail, sail, sail!"
This song goes out to villainous couple Jackal and Flametress, as well as their ungodly, destructive and passionate desire and ambitions for one another in the Rapunzel's Tangled Adventure chapter of The UnTitled Stories in The Omniscient Rule saga.
"Shadows fall over my heart
I blackout the moon
I wait for you to come around
You got me dancing in the dark ("Dancing in the dark!")
I've closed my eyes
But I won't sleep tonight
Baby, you should come with me
I'll take you to the dark side
Me and you, you and me
Do bad things in the night time
Baby, you should come with me
And we can kill the lights, hit the lights, let it blackout
Blackout, hit the lights, let it blackout, blackout, woo
Black bird, black moon
Black sky, black light
Black everything, black
Black heart, black keys
Black diamonds, blackout
Black everything, black
Black everything, everything
All black everything, everything
All black, everything, everything
All black, everything, everything black
In a nocturnal state of mind
Children of the night
But it's the only way of life
This black hole's pulling me inside
Of this black heart, this black soul
Underneath this black, black sky!"
And last song for the familial bond between Gavin Turquoise and his adopted nibling, Schrödinger. These two both first meet at the end of No Home For One, after Gavin has effectively eliminated the heads of the Noir part of the Shadow Web, and comes across Schrödinger while leaving the Noir's base of operations, the young child locked away for a client to sell to. Gavin takes Schrödinger with him and adopts the child, and throughout the years, makes a comfortable home in Hope County. He treats Schrödinger like his lost nephew Nathaniel, kind of processing his loss by taking care of them, even though Schrödinger is far from being similar to Nathaniel in any capacity. Whereas Gavin is distant and calculating and a very efficient socialite as well as being aware of others feelings and yet being unempathetic himself, Schrödinger is reclusive, highly perceptive and often times, very quiet but has a high level of empathy, and is almost an empath. By the time of Silva's Hope, Schrödinger has basically noticed the warning signs of Eden's Gate restlessness, even though Gavin continues to antagonize them, and even when the Reaping occurs and they're both holed up at the Hope County Jailhouse, they notice he still does it, despite the risks it brings to the Cougars. Schrödinger is also... absolutely terrified of Gavin's capacity for violence and his ruthlessness to get what he wants. By the time of Old Dusk, 18 years later, there's a schism between them, mostly urged on by Schrödinger's girlfriend, Azriel Omar, to rebel against the man more with how much he tries to control their life. And as much as Gavin tried to keep his dealings secret, he's both unaware, and entirely dismissive, of the notion that Schrödinger has noticed how his disappearances from Prosperity often time perfectly with a Highwaymen attack on one of Hudson's outposts later in the week. Both of them have seen the world at its ugliest, but whereas Gavin turns a blind eye whenever it's convenient to him (a fatal flaw that lead to the abduction of his nephew), Schrödinger cannot unsee the rot.
"Sometimes I wish I could lend you my eyes
Lend you my hips and lend you my thighs
Sometimes I wish I could take a new shape
Switch out some parts and become a big A
Sometimes I wish I could lend you my ears
Lend you my thoughts and lend you my tears
Sometimes I wish I could take a new form
Switch out some parts and become like the norm
Lucky is she who lives unaware
Who doesn't get bothered by those who don't care
Lucky is she who lives unaware
Who doesn't get bothered by all that's unfair
Unlucky me who knows way too much
Who fights to make changes and music and such
Unlucky me, aware of the pain
All 'cause I happen to have some brain
Sometimes I wish I could lend you my voice
Lend you my heart and lend you my choice
Sometimes I hope for a savior to come
Who's got what it takes to convince everyone
Sometimes I wish I could lend you my shoes
Lend you my life and lend you my truth
But sometimes the truth is just my point of view
Not what is real and not what is true
Lucky is she who lives unaware
Who doesn't get bothered by those who don't care
Lucky is she who lives unaware
Who doesn't get bothered by all that's unfair
Unlucky me who knows way too much
Who fights to make changes and music and such
Unlucky me, aware of the pain
All 'cause I happen to have some brain
Lucky is she who lives unaware
Lucky is she who lives unaware
Unlucky me who knows way too much
Who fights to make changes and music and such
Unlucky me, aware of the pain
All 'cause I happen to have some brain
Haha!"
And here is an OC Meme template my Fallout OCs from my A Radioactive Calamity of Love, Bombs & Gore series in regard to the age old question... is the Earth flat? (it isn't, but here's some answers from these guys):
From left to right, up to down:
Alph Dolen, my Lone Wanderer OC, who is driven out of his home in Vault 101 along with his childhood crush Amata Almodovar, on the search for his father in the Capital Wasteland. Being forced to be Ress' tour guide under threat is just a minor setback.
Nate Gust Sarid, my Sole Survivor OC, who watched the world end, his wife murdered and infant son abducted, and almost get eaten by a Deathclaw (and meet Ress), as well as be appointed the General of the Minutemen on what felt like the same day. Ress scares him, but he knows he can somewhat count on her.
Ortega "Ore" Brantley, the son of Responder Tiffany Brantley and Arcane Urias, on a quest to destroy his father and his Occult agents for the crimes of not paying child support to any of the women Urias knocked up and for mutilating Ore's face as well.
Marissa "Ress" Bishop, daughter of an affair between crime boss matriarch Leslie Anne Bishop and (unbeknownst to Leslie) Arcane Urias, who just wants to hang out with her big bro Ore, as well as help him hunt down their father and his Occult for killing her friends.
Courier Ryder, my Courier-Six OC, who just wanted to do a simple delivery job before she got robbed of the package and shot in the head by some checkered shirt wearing asshole. But hey, she meets Ore, who is quite peculiar but not so far from her personal taste in men.
Resident Vega, my Resident 76er OC, who got left behind in Vault 76 the morning after blacking out from after the intense party thrown the night before Reclamation Day. Vega has vowed bloody vengeance against her neighbors for such transgression, including her Overseer, and convinces two odd newcomers of the area, Matthias Talos and his brother, Arcane Urias, to lend her a hand.
Joaquin Cobalt (Jurassic World, IT, Gravity Falls, Stranger Things, Various) [The Perfect Storm, The Omniscient Rule & The Ender sagas] | Kara Darling (RDR2, FNAF, Hellaverse, Various) [The Perfect Storm & The Omniscient Rule sagas] | Shallow (Yo-Kai Watch, Various) [Yo-Kai Watchlace, We Stand Together & Supremacy] | Alamach (Yo-Kai Watch, FNAF, Hellaverse, Various) [The Perfect Storm & The Omniscient Rule sagas] | Preacher [The Devil Of All Time & We Stand Together]
THE SILVER CHRONICLES
Deputy Silva Omar (Far Cry 5 & New Dawn) [Silva's Hope, La Última En Pie & Old Dusk] | Chiwa (Elden Ring) [Weave The Threads of Blood] | Logan, the Vagabond of No Renown (Elden Ring) [By The Gold of Grace] | Selke the All-Seeing Mage (Elden Ring) [Weave The Threads of Blood & By The Gold of Grace] | Koa, Bastard of the Badlands (Elden Ring) [Weave The Threads of Blood]
LIFE, DESPAIR & MONSTERS
Haoyu Anabuki (DDLC, Love Death + Robots, Guenevere, Various) [You Make My Heart Go Doki Doki Literature Club!, The Ruins of the Midnight Rise, Choo Choo Charles Has Gone Off The Rails, Various] | Frederick Rosemary (Poppy Playtime, Love Death + Robots, Guenevere, Various) [Enter The Toybox!, The Ruins of the Midnight Rise, Choo Choo Charles Has Gone Off The Rails, Various] | Edith "Evie" Bloodleech (The Invitation (2022), Love Death + Robots, Guenevere & Various) [An Invite To Wine And Dine, The Ruins of the Midnight Rise, Various] | The Displacements (Love Death + Robots, Guenevere, I Am Not Okay With This, Various) [The Ruins of the Midnight Rise, Choo Choo Charles Has Gone Off The Rails, And From Dust & Ashes, The Tower's Foundation Hold, Various] | Terra, the Slumbering Goddess (The Legend of Vox Machina)
ORIGINAL WORKS
Jade Smith [Wings And Horns & An Old Ballad of Chance and Ember Hearts Trilogy] | Jasmine Rafiq [Wings And Horns & An Old Ballad of Chance and Ember Hearts Trilogy] | Archibald Thanatos [An Old Ballad of Chance and Ember Hearts Trilogy] | Olivia Thanatos [An Old Ballad of Chance and Ember Hearts Trilogy] | Rouske [An Old Ballad of Chance and Ember Hearts Trilogy & Various]
A RADIOACTIVE CALAMITY OF LOVE, BOMBS & GORE
Marissa "Ress" Bishop (Fallout) [The Waters Of Life Flow, Full Table, Full House (Come Place Your Bets) & A Symbol For A Better World] | Ortega "Ore" Brantley (Fallout) [The Waters Of Life Flow, Full Table, Full House (Come Place Your Bets) & Make The Most Of Freedom (And Of Pleasure)] | Alph Dolen (Fallout 3 & 4) [The Waters Of Life Flow & A Symbol For A Better World] | Arcane Urias (Fallout) [The Waters Of Life Flow, Make The Most Of Freedom (And Of Pleasure), A Symbol For A Better World & What Happened To Vault Numbered 76?] | Aggravor the Accursed (Fallout) [The Waters Of Life Flow, Full Table, Full House (Come Place Your Bets) & A Symbol For A Better World]
unfortunate truth of reality is that oftentimes 15 year olds will say/do/believe some stupid bullshit because they are 15 but telling them that they believe that because they are 15 is probably the most counterproductive thing in the entire universe
Hello friends, I'm Ayoush Crochet, and I'm also Ayoush trying to help my family.
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I'm here to tell you a few things. There are many haters and liars around, but I want to thank @el-shab-hussein who refuted all these false claims. However, You can follow up on this matter through this link click here
First, I'm the one who makes these crocheted pieces, and this is indeed the business card. You can see it on this page and contact me there as well. Click here
It was under our business name. But I lost the pieces and the business phone when my house was bombed.
That's why I'm here; I need your help and support. There are many hateful people here who wish us harm and genocide, but I'm striving for my dream and trying to help my family. These are some pieces of my work from before the war. I hope you can help and support us so we can continue living and alleviate our suffering.
Also, if you wish, you can follow the page on Instagram and view many more pieces of art.
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it bothers me when someone brings up misogyny in shounen anime and people shrug it off with "its designed for teenage boys, what can you expect." like well. idk i think its actually pretty important that shows for teenage boys are normal about women. i mean i think all media should be normal about women but teenagers are impressionable i think we could put a little bit of feminism in the teenage boy shows. it might do some good. you never know.
and this isnt just about shounen i just mean like. if you're excusing misogynistic writing with "well it wasn't written for girls" then i'm seriously questioning your approach to all this.