Chapt3r Bate

Good afternoon, long time admirer, first time submitter.

Just got to say, thank you for all that you do. Your blog is thought provoking, inspirational and has given me the resources to self reflect and question my insecurities.

I’d tell my friends how much I loved bating. How the longer I could bate for, the better. I’d tell them how scent plays a major role in my arousel (my own and that of my partners). Not scent as in the fragrance of one’s shower gel, but the actual scent of the being. The unique smell of each individual’s skin oils. Their pheromones. I’d tell my friend how much I love bating in nature. Beside Merri creek, in our national parks, at the beach, on mountain summits. The calming connection I’d feel with the landscape around me, the air I breathe, the ground I stand on and the beauty of watching the bugs and ants consume my semen from the trunk of the tree or the rock I had just jizzed on. I’d tell my friends all of these stories with excitement and enthusiasm. In return I’d receive looks of bewilderment and skepticism. I’d question myself, “am I a weirdo or perverted for feeling this way about solo sex? Is it abnormal to have these sensory connections with myself and nature?” Of course the answer is no. Your blog made me realise that I have no need to be frightened by my feelings and desires, that they should in fact be embraced with a clenching palm and practised as often as possible. Thank you

Ps, your intellect and articulation is admirable.

Ignore them.  Pleasure yourself...be proud of it.  And remember, your orgasms will be many times more intense and blissful than those who just ‘jerk off’ and think you are odd.  They have no idea what they let pass by.