I saw a reel about this person encouraging lesbians to befriend bisexual men and that kinda pissed me off so here's an incomprensible list of things bisexual men have done to me, bc being queer doesn't erase their misogyny 🫶🏽
- guy 1 (a friend) threw a tantrum and cut me off when I called him out for making light of a situation in which I had been scared for my life (older man on the bus at night was staring at me fixated the whole ride)
- guy 2 (also a friend) started hitting on me despite knowing that im a lesbian, tried to make me pity him for never getting women, made incel comments about his height and MY HEIGHT, and went as far as to say "i wish you had met me when I was a girl bc you would've liked me"
- guy 3 (my best friend of YEARS) pursued not one but TWO girls who had just turned 19, one of which identified as a lesbian at the time. I found out about it and he lied to me and pretended not to be pursuing her... she ended up being bi, but it still doesn't make it not weird 🫶🏽
a bisexual guy friend:
- invited me over to smoke a joint at his place. i got sick (i think it was stronger stuff than I was prepared for) and started throwing up, but his booty call was on the way over, so he started pushing me out the door even though i was in absolutely no state to take the bus. I'm lucky I made it home safe that night
- realized he was bi, after having been out and proud as gay for years, due to catching feelings for his straight (girl) friend. when she didn't take well to the revelation that her gay BFF was actually in love with her, he framed the situation to me as her being the unreasonable one
men can be trash no matter their sexuality and women should not have to date or befriend or allow any space for them in our lives if we don't want to <3
I am so sorry you went through all of that!!
