Big Yeet

For the love of god please be an active participant in your own life

ublock origin is not enough i need advertisers to feel physical pain

ublock origin is not enough i need advertisers to feel physical pain

ublock origin is not enough i need advertisers to feel physical pain

ublock origin is not enough i need advertisers to feel physical pain

ublock origin is not enough i need advertisers to feel physical pain

ublock origin is not enough i need advertisers to feel physical pain

ublock origin is not enough i need advertisers to feel physical pain

ublock origin is not enough i need advertisers to feel physical pain

ublock origin is not enough i need advertisers to feel physical pain

ublock origin is not enough i need advertisers to feel physical pain

He’s so shy he died

We could’ve had something beautiful together but everbody leaves me

if you see a trans woman advocating for herself and immediately assume shes transphobic and hates trans men, that is a transphobic bias you have to unlearn. similarly, if you see a trans man advocating for himself and immediately assume hes a transmisogynist, THAT is a transphobic bias you have to unlearn. its natural to want to defend yourself. its natural to find those outside of your personal & relatable group scary. its a survival adaptation. but we are people who are intelligent and capable of recognizing nuance, not animals, and you have to learn to overcome your discomfort and fear at some point. being trans yourself does not shield you from perpetuating bigotry and transphobia toward other people that should be in your community in the first place, and continuing to move through the world with this belief unchallenged is the shit that drives us even further apart than we already have been

women's hockey will never not make me emotional. im crying in public because an openly lesbian woman captained a gold medal winning team, set an all time record and then gets to go home and play hockey in a thriving professional league.

Idk man it’s so easy to get bogged down in all the bullshit online but when my then-6 year old cousin found out I was trans he said “ok” then corrected my grandma when she misgendered me. I was once the third between a gay man and a lesbian. Two lesbians once invited me back to their place when I presented as a man. I met an AMAB nb butch who looked strikingly to outsiders like a cis man and it was one of the more sapphic experiences I’ve had. I nervously wore a boydyke shirt to pride and got 3 different cis-looking femme folks tell me they loved my shirt. I once told a trans group at a protest that any pronouns were fine for me and one person said “wow, I’m impressed and intimidated by people like that. I don’t know that I could be that chill with pronouns.” I once told a GNC friend I wished I could wear a type of “opposite” gender clothing after I had already transitioned and so it would be associated with my AGAB and he said “You could just do it.” I’ve had cishet men fight cops for me before. The first time I had a doctor ask me if my name was different than what was on my forms I had to try not to cry. Last week, a phone call with a doctor’s office where I am generally cis passing asked unprompted if my name listed is what I want to be called. It touched me then too. I told a lesbian friend once I felt like my attraction to men AND women both felt gay. She said “makes sense.” And we moved on. I go by different pronouns in different circles. I’ve had gay women love my facial hair. I’ve had gay men like my tits. It’s all out there, I promise. It can be hard to find it but I promise there is community like you and community who likes you. And it’s more messy and beautiful than tumblr discourse makes it out to be.