Just Socks

I think they should start letting women in rock sound like shit again

Nothing against the artists but oh my god I'm so sick of only hearing female voices that have an incredible range or a beautiful tone becoming huge bands. I wanna hear women with deep voices I wanna hear women who shriek I wanna hear women sound out of tune I wanna hear trans women I wanna hear women that don't do anything but yell I wanna hear teenage girls filled with rage I wanna hear women with voices worn down with age I wanna hear women with annoying voices I wanna hear women allowed to show a single shred of fucking passion at the top of the biggest spotify playlists. There are plenty of them out there but they never break out of their neat designated little riotgrrrl and women in rock playlists because people only want to listen to them if it's easily digestible as if they don't listen to men that can't song for shit on the daily!

This sounds like something that would be playing in a story set in Victorian London slums or something? I DON’T KNOW.

ITS A GODDAMN SHANTY

its appropriate anywhere from the wild west to a pirate ship to imperial russia a jaunty steampunk adventure to one impressive bard

ok this shit FUCKS

its really weird to see all these articles about how people who have ADHD have sleeping problems but the issue I have is that if you look at it as a matter of your circadian rythym being out of sync? of COURSE you’re not going to be able to sleep. we don’t say people who can’t fall asleep at 4 pm and sleep 8 hours have insomnia, because that’s not a normally agreed upon time to sleep and its not your bodies time to sleep. if you tell someone to go to bed at 10 and they can’t sleep till 3 am sometimes in just not insomnia. people with ADHD are often wired to sleep from 4 am to 12 pm ish because of the delayed onset of melatonin but if you let us go to bed at the time we need? most of us actually sleep pretty well and consistently.

wAIT THIS IS AN ACTUAL THING THAT EXISTS

“For most adults the onset of melatonin is around 9.30 pm; in ADHD children compared to controls this occurs at least 45 minutes later, and in adults with ADHD even 90 minutes (van der Heijden ea, 2005; van Veen ea 2010). After melatonin onset, it normally takes 2 hours to fall asleep, but in adults with ADHD it takes at least 3 hours (Bijlenga et al, 2013).”

Look at me awake at 1:47 am and reblogging this post.

So I’m actually trained in therapy for addressing insomnia and one of the things we learned is that a good chunk of sleep problems are societal disorders - as in they WOULDN’T EXIST as problems if society didn’t assume everyone was on the same circadian rhythm and that being up and working 9-5 was mandatory/normal. Blew my mind and made so much sense. You are not the problem, society is literally the problem.

there is no god. only pussy

After two hours of dramatic emotional breakdown and a cup of ramen later I realized that I was in fact hungry and not sad.

I usually realize after a day of stomach pains I was in fact sad and not hungry

Note to Self: You gotta do this for you. This is for you. This isn't about anybody. Live for you. Honor you. Never lose sight of that.