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i just translated that though and it means ‘fuck your mother, fuck me’

Set your standards high and keep your expectations low, because that is what yields true happiness. I think that God intends to see his children strive for holiness out of our affection for him, and then to meet someone with a mutual love for Christ who, therefore, also strives for holiness. To wait until your life collides with someone who pursues the same thing—Jesus—requires the patience that marks those with high standards. And once those high standards have introduced you to someone who will uphold the values of your relationship with the Lord, you have the choice to free them from expectations (for you have already seen their faithful pursuit of holiness). You are free to have low expectations because your neediness is satisfied by Christ—the one you both yearn for; the only one able to meet and exceed your expectations. So with high standards and low expectations, we have a recipe for joyful contentment—what the world calls “happiness.” This mind-set cultivates a relationship of dependence on Christ, and delight in one another.