be delusional about your dreams and goals, not people

Girl, I dare you to go all in & bet on yourself.

“situationship” youre 32

in the age of remote work we should all be visiting friends like they did in jane austen times. is it raining? stay overnight, you'll catch a chill. coming for a visit? why not stay for a couple months, until the roads...get better?

gentle reminder that things take time. whatever it is you’re working on, tangible or otherwise, be graceful with yourself. it will happen in its own time, which is also your time. 

One of the most dangerous things in the world is not being able to say no to people because you don't want to upset them or dissapoint them. This will completely ruin your life in every way possible, at work, in your private life, your sex life and your friendships. It's a way of removing your own consent in your own decisions and go against your wishes, it is always a crime against yourself. Let yourself have a say. Upsetting people is better than traumatizing yourself.

you take up space and that’s okay - more than okay. the are worthy of the space you take up. i’m happy you’re here.

"I’m slowly learning that some people aren’t good for me, no matter how much I love them." - WorkingWomen.com

this is not what i deserve, so this is not what i will settle for