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Secondly I neeeed advices on how to get men or older men. Im still hung up on all your flirting mess (not disrespectfully I just found it entertaining), and I’m moving in a new town for my studies in the south of france. And woman do you know how to find them ? Or are you just a natural 😭 I keep asking my friends but they just don’t help..

If I made you uncomfortable I’m extremely sorry, and just don’t answer to my embarrassing question🫩

This is how I imagine you asking me for daddy trapping advice lmfao im cryinggg

Thank you you're such a sweetheart now that I'm done with my degree I'll be so much more productive and active in drawing and writing as well! I have the ALM update in the works and I am also simultaneously working on a Toto x George fic in the current timeline of TLLC and a prequel Piquet x Senna fic where we learn how Piquet took Ayrtons virginity.

As for finding men I must admit I was never really looking for them, they were always the ones approaching me so I'm not sure how useful my advices may be...

what I could suggest if you want to attract good quality older men is: be authentic. I know it seems obvious, but don't act needlessly sweet or innocent in front of men; those who go for frail fragile shy girls have a predatory vibe and are not worth your time because they're too insecure and lacking qualities to approach strong independent women. I don't know how i could phrase this simply but make sure you have the aura not of a doe, but that of a fellow wolf with keen attention to their environment. Have a "do not fuck with me" aura. Maintain eye contact without fear. Give strong handshakes. Stand tall and proud. Know your worth. When they compliment you, don't get bashful, just give a small smile and a slow blink to reassure them you know. You know you're gorgeous, you know you're intelligent, you know they'd piss themselves to kiss the sole of your shoe. No need to be narcissistic, just make sure you display that you do not need them. They need you.

And dont be afraid to argue. Many girls will just smile and nod and give an awkward little laugh when a guy says some bullshit, but that's lame. Challenge them and their views. If they say "Wow you're not like other girls, I've never met someone like you," - which happens to me all the time, just draw your brows together and ask humorously if they've been living in a cave until now or if they haven't talked to many women before. It'll rewrite how they've been perceiving women until then.

Don't settle for less, have standards. No fast food on the first date. Have him take you to a cafe, or a nice restaurant, and I am not the type to split the bill, if a man wants to take out a woman, he has to show he can afford it. And if they're like "oh you're so high maintenance," then remind them if they want a nice car then they have to pay for it, otherwise they can walk or take the communal bus. You're a Porsche, not a bike they found on the side of the road.

This may just be because I was raised in a very traditional eastern European fashion, but I have a conservative style when it comes to dating.

Getting intimate with a man is to allow them to hold you at the most vulnerable position you are willing to be in: do not let them touch you until you are fully comfortable with it and they've earned your trust. For example, my richest and oldest man did not get the privilege to eat my 😽 until 8 months of regular dates and he got off so fast from the pent up excitement he thought I was a God or something because I barely touched him after I came. You are more memorable if you have a personality they're drawn to, rather than just a body. That's why he still calls me and begs to see me even though I moved countries a year ago since. Im not saying be a prude but no getting intimate until at least date 5. I promise you it's worth it. It builds trust and excitement.

Talk about your interests and hold up conversations with 50/50 speaking time where you discuss art, media, sports, politics, nature, music and philosophy. I like to start with crucial subjects to quickly filter out who's worth my time so I dont waste it on misogynists, racists, homophobes or just plain assholes.

Also be careful if you are looking for older older men. They are inherently in a more powerful position so always make sure you have an emergency contact on hand and at least one person who knows your location when you go out with them. Also if they are not shady they will not mind giving out their address or let you take a picture of their license plate. Showing them you are not a naive immature kid will also filter out potentially dangerous partners.

And last but not least i would not recommend dating apps. Authentic meetings are less awkward but also I dont have much of an experience with it, I had one guy from hinge who turned madly obsessive and I still have a hard time scraping him off of me. But my sister is a frequent dating app user and she had a huge range of terrible experiences which repulsed me in general from the practice.

—Garoto, I'm tired of whores. I want to fall in love like I fell in love with your grandmother.

—You always say my grandmother was a whore.

—Don't you dare talk about Ayrton like that!

—I'm sorry, I shouldn't have–

—But yes, he was a first-class whore.

I find the Piquet x Senna dynamic strangely addictive, it's so perfectly laced together with deep hatred, jealousy, possession, frustration... and you know me I love a toxic ass relationship and here I don't need to hold back on what an evil asshole I make Piquet who forcefully took Senna's virginity, knocked him up, claimed and married him just to eliminate him as a competition and keep him as his personal whore - and Senna prevailed in the end.