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1. Neptune/Uranus in 4th house, / Pisces IC children tend to be forced by their mothers into something they are not. Their mothers often create this fantasy, this ideal child in their head and then try to make their real child just like it. It's not always malicious, and they don't do it on purpose, but when the child actually grows up and starts to develop their real personality and likings, their mothers tend to deny it. It's like they cannot see the reality which results in mother being dissapointed by their child, but also the child being unhappy from dissapointing their mother. For ex. mother wants her daughter to be a dancer, the child grows up and pursues photography instead - mother will always mourn "the dancer" that child could have become, completely ignoring if the child actually enjoyed dancing (this is just a simplified example).

2. Moon in virgo/capricorn | Moon aspecting Saturn | Moon/Saturn in 10th house | Ruler of 4th house in 10th house children had mothers that showed love through helping, taking care and through acts of service rather than hugging, emotional speeches etc. These mothers were caring, but emotional intimacy may have not been their strongest side. For ex. they would signed up their child to every activity they ever wanted, bought the best equipment but wouldn't come to suppoet them to their performances etc. These mothers also have tendency of complimenting and bragging about their childs achievments to other people in public, but rarely actually praising the child directly in private.

3. Aries/Scorpio IC or moon | Mars in 4th house children tend to have mothers that had very distinct personality, both in a bad way or a good way. These mothers are often incredibly independant, sadly are ofren also single mothers. These people also have fought a lot with their mother, even more interestingly, even they fought a lot, these fights were often very short lived. They ended as fast as they started. Their mothers often also refused to mention that fight ever again if it ended. It's like they were screaming one night and then pretended nothing ever happened in the morning. These mothers also tend to comfort the child one second, but expect them to move on and be okay the next second. These children are also expected and forced in some way to be independant too.

- many people argue that empty houses mean there isn't a major focus on topics of that house, but in my experience, person actually CANNOT focus on the topic of empty house and aren't able to manage that part of their life on their own resulting in inhabitting something from their family members, copying others, needing direction from someone etc.

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1. Empty 5th house: These people are definition of "jester of all trades, master of none". They are usually gifted in their childhood and then burned out by their late teens. They pick up many hobbies through out their life, but end up semi good at most of them majority of the time. These people are usually really lazy, so even if they are talented at something, they will end up procrastinating and hoping that talent without practice is enough. IF THE 5TH HOUSE IS BADLY ASPECTED, these people will drop any hobby, job etc. the second they find out they're not immedietly good at it. These people will have problem to find meaning or fullfillment in any activities they do, resulting often in procrastination and depression. These people will also rely too much on their ability to improvise and rarely practice or prepare for various things.

2. Empty 2nd house: These people inherit a lot of stuff from their family members or friends. They usually rarely buy anything new, if they need clothes they will go thrifting, if they need new appliances they will rather go look on facebook marketplace then go into IKEA. They also move out really late or don't move out at all from their childhood home. These people also have just a lot of family heirlooms and tend to be quite sentimental. IF THE 2ND HOUSE IS BADLY ASPECTED, these people will refuse to buy or invest into anything new in their life. They would rather walk in teared up shirt than buy a new one. They will use everything they have to the point that is unhealthy and can damage even themselfs just to save up. They also have extreme tendency to hoard.

3. Empty 9th house: These people have very unstable morals. They just tend to copy their morals and beliefs from their family, friends or social media. They have problem in finding middle ground, so they immedietly go into extremes. These people will go from nihilist and atheist to fullblown orthodox christian in weeks. IF THE 9TH HOUSE IS BADLY ASPECTED, these people tend to fall for propaganda, hoaxes and fake news easily. They are the best prey for scamms, cults etc. They will easily detach from anyone who doesnt share same beliefs as them.

1. 12th house sun / ruler of 4th in 12th house / 12th house mars children have father who is absent, unknown or distant - my mother has never met 12th house sun with unproblematic father during her whole career. These peoples life lesson IS to not have a perfect father. Their fathers are often not in their lifes emotionally/physically. If they are, then it's not consistent. Maybe they were there in the childhood and then left in later teens/adulthood and visa versa. Interestingly, if the sun is strongly aspected, they usually never met their father at all, don't know his identity etc. These people also tend to not live with their father for various reasons. It's not unusual for these people to have fathers that are foreigners or lived for a long time in different countries. These people also are often not accepted by their fathers side of the family. If the sun is badly aspected, there could be a problem of the father not being sure of the paternity. On the bright side, these placements often compensates these people with other strong male figures in their life. These people have often amazing relationship with brothers or male cousins, on the other hand, often have strong and indenpendent mothers/female role models. Also this is amazing example of daughters who are hated by their father after entering puberty.

2. Saturn in 10th house / Virgo or Capricorn midheaven or 10th house / Ruler of 10th house in Virgo/Capricorn children have what i call "fathers with mind of a teenager". These peoples father are often present, but their presence is a problem for the child. They usually struggle of taking care of the child. They don't have the parent instinct. They don't know what the child needs, don't know how to care for it properly. This either results in neglectful father who doesn't care at all, or extremely controlling father who cares too much. They either don't take the child to the doctor at all, or take them for every minor thing. They either don't know where their child is most of the time or don't even let them go out of the house. On the bright side, this kind of father raises extremely strong person. These people are always in some way forced to take care of themselfs and raise themselfs. Most of the time, they end up raising their own father too. They are doomed to solve responsibilities of their usuless fathers, they have to be the adult and the parent instead of the father himself.

3. 8th house sun / 8th house in leo, ruler of 8th house in leo / sun aspecting pluto

(DO NOT READ IF NOT COMFORTABLE WITH THEMES OF ABUSE, SA ETC.) children are often like a punching bag for their fathers. These children are doomed to be a filter for their fathers frustration or anger. Their father often took their anger out on them, mentally but possibly physically too. This is one of the most common placements of child SA, which i would like to express my condolences for anyone who went through such terrible experiences. On the other hand, this placement often has bad relationship with intimacy or relationships. Maybe their father cheated on their mother, abused them or their other family members etc. resulting in this placement not wanting any relationships, kids, intercourse etc. These peolple were also forced to solve their fathers financial situations. Maybe their father was alcoholic, drug addict, gambler etc. and they were forced to solve the situation somehow.

- When it comes to finances and money, almost everyone talks about positive side: placements that get rich easily, attract money, have good jobs etc. but let's be honest, majority of people struggle - so here's some placements that have major financial issues and HOW to solve it.

1. Pluto in 2nd house / 2nd house in scorpio: Deemed as indicator of extreme wealth, pluto in 2nd house also brings extreme poverty and crisis. Pluto deeply loves extremes. Pluto in 2nd house individuals range from a homeless person to the richest people on earth. These people tend to have period of barely surviving to having unbearable excess of resurces. Pluto is also a planet of drastic change - these peoples financial status can AND will change overnight. Pluto also makes them takes risks, makes them overconfident with how well they actually handle resurces. People with this placement actually aren't rich regarding money - they often just own a lot of properties, jewerly and material things overall. This is why they are really prone to not being careful of their stuff, often destroying them, gambling them off or losing them - since pluto is also planet of the underworld. These people need to fully understand how much are things actually worth - not to them, but in general. You need to plan because you can lose and gain overnight. You can't be overconfident, this is the one of the few placements where you need to humble yourself to the ground. 2nd house kind of rich isn't luxurious, it is kind of rich that keeps you alive - enough money, food, housing for you to survive. With pluto in 2nd house, you need to always have plan B, don't be to attached to your material stuff because pluto will try to teach you to not dwell and be addicted to it by taking it away, but don't deem it unimportant because pluto will come to teach you the importance of it.

2. Jupiter in 2nd house / 2nd house in sagittarius/taurus / 2nd house ruler in 2nd house: One of the most famous indicators of being wealthy - rarely mentioned as indicator of addiction or excess to the point of (material) gluttony. These people are destined to learn a lesson of knowing what is actually enough for them, to learn their limits, and to appreciate the beauty of not having too much, but just enough. On a positive side, jupiter really helps this people to stay content. Unlike pluto, this people rarely get into extreme poverty or become homeless. On the other hand, this people will struggle with excess that brings them near poverty. They hoard, they are shopping addicts, they would rather spend money on material things (clothes, jewerly, cars etc.) and then forget about their basic needs (food, water, furniture etc.). When they actually buy food, they rarely eat healthy. They either overeat, eat mass produced,oily foods and especially sweets. These are kind of people that will wear full luxurious outfit and then not have money for a dentist. These people need to learn what is too much. They will never know the struggle of too little, but if they never learn their limits, they will also never learn the happiness of being just content, not rich, just having enough.

1. libra moons / 7th house moon / 11th house moon children tend to have overly friendly relationship with their mother and often their mothers don't set healthy bonderies resulting in the child (libra moon) being exposed to topics and dramas they are too young to know about and are forced to become mediator in those situations. Based on house and aspects, i find that a lot of libra moon view their mother more as a friend and not at authority. If the moon is nicely aspected, the person appreciates how open their mother was, if it's badly aspected, the person hates it.

2. scorpio moon / 8th house moon children have intense relationship with their mother a lot. What is actually interesting to me is that a lot of them hate or somehow despise their mother in childhood BUT later in adulthood, they start viewing their mother through rose-colored glasses. It's almost as if they forgive her everything and start praising her about everything she did. They won't admit if their mother was ever wrong or made a mistake, they almost start to see her as this "mother mary" - completely pure, innocent and perfect women. I noticed that this especially happens if the mother passes away. This is also more prominent if neptune/pluto are aspecting the moon.

3. Uranus square ascendent/rising children are often forced to move or travel because of their mom directly or indirectly. Their mother maybe picks them school that is far away from home, sends them a lot to relatives that live far away for a visit etc. I also noticed that these people often have fathers from different countries than their mother. Their mothers are often multilingual too. What is interesting that a lot of people with uranus squaring ascendent/rising are in middle of travelling when their mother dies.

1. Libra mercury: I noticed that no matter in what house libra mercury is located and no matter what aspects it makes, these people have tendency to lie about their life situation. It's not lying even, more of sugar coating. They tend to make their struggles sound like accomplishments. They have this inner need to make everything sound positive and polish to the point they completely disfigure the truth. On one side it's good, because they try so hard to not bother anyone with their problems, but on the other hand they also overlook, ignore and often underestimate problems of others because they're using the same mindset on people beside themselfs.

- for ex.

- on a positive side: libra mercury can be secretly starving because of lack of money, but will tell people how proud they are of loosing the weight, choosing not to worry other people about their situation

- on the negative side: libra mercury wouldn't tell their friend if they look bad, they will always choose to tell some fake compliment over having to confront someones feelings

2. Moon in 11th house: These people aren't necessarly liars, but they overexaggerate everything they say. If they tell a story, they make it seem more dramatic than it was. If they think something is funny - they will laugh louder than they actually would, if they like something - they will say they love it and if they dislike something - they will say that they despise it. Moon in 11th doesn't lie about something, but it lies about the intesity of it.

-For ex.

-on a positive side: moon in 11th house will always light up the atmosphere with their (fake, but not in malicious way) over the top emotions and reactions, even in the most akward moments or after a bad joke being told, they will always laugh and make other people laugh too.

-on the negative side: moon in 11th house often ruins reputation of others. If they had a small disagreement with someone, they retell it as a big fight and often make the victim out of themselfs even if they were the one being wrong. They also pretend to be more hurt than they actually are.

3. Mercury in 11th house: These people will lie and they are amazing at it too. This people have such an elaborate lies, complete backstories, they often even plan ahead. They often tend to even tell multiple different lies to different people to achieve a certain outcome, because 11th house is house of networking after all. This isn't always with bad intention, because they mostly use it to solve some sort of conflict, solve friendship issues, and lessen the negative atmosphere or make consequences less drastic, but on the negative note, they often tend to lie when they see that their surroundings don't agree or think the same. If they say they like orange in front of someone, and then they find out that person hates orange, the next day they will tell everyone they hate orange too. These people lie so good, they often can't distinguish what even is true at some point.

-For ex.

-on a positive side: mercury in 11th house thrives in politics, debates, discussions and law. Their lies are still lies, but their purpose isn't always malicious. They often lie in order to make everyone less mad, to lessen the consequences and to achieve some kind of harmony at the cost of a complete truth.

-on the negative side: mercury in 11th house tends to lie to make themself liked by people around them. They are willing to lie about their beliefs, morals and values just to fit into the crowd. This often leads them to moral dillemas where they have to decide what is more important: being liked or being yourself.

- many people argue that empty houses mean there isn't a major focus on topics of that house, but in my experience, person actually CANNOT focus on the topic of empty house and isn't able to manage that part of their life on their own resulting in inhabitting something from their family members, copying others, needing direction from someone etc.

- for ex.

1. Empty 6th house: These people tend to inhabit habits from their family members, they tend to hoard like their grandma or garden like their aunt. They tend to look up morning/gym/school routines on the internet and copy them to the every detail. IF THE RULER OF THE 6TH HOUSE IS BADLY ASPECTED, these people actually completely skip routines or habits that could bring them closer to their goals. They would rather pay restaurants every single day in order to eat rather than cook themselfs. If they want to lose weight, they would rather starve than diet, if they want to start running, they immedietly go for 10km run instead of 1km run.

2. Empty 3rd house: These people often have extremely stereotypical accent, you can almost pinpoint the exact town they are from based on it. Whenever they learn another language, they will still have extremely pronounced accent of their mother language. Their humor is often heavily monotone and simple, and they mostly repeat whatever is funny currently on the internet (they have "popular girl humor" as the best example, but i find the term heavily misogynistic). IF THE RULER OF THE 3RD HOUSE IS BADLY ASPECTED, these people will never actually express their own opinion or need, resulting in unsatisfied life altogether. These people will never complain or argue, pinpoint a problem or whatsoever, resulting in harming themselfs and others.

3. Empty 1st house: These people tend to follow one style/aesthetic etc. intensely. If these people like skirts, they will throw out every pair of pants out of their house (metaphorically). They also have tendecy to want to become copy of someone (their parent, content creator...) to the point of lying to themselfs and convincing themselfs they like something they don't. IF THE RULER OF THE 1ST HOUSE IS BADLY ASPECTED, these people will not only try to force themselfs to be something they're not, but also everyone around them too. These people will cut off everyone who doesn't see them as the version they want to be seen, even if that said version is worse. They tend to project their unfulfilled dreams into their friends/children etc.